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Sex FAQs

Tuesday, November 19th, 2013

Here at The Pleasure Chest, we spend a lot of time talking to people about their sex lives. Consequently, we also spend a lot of time answering a pretty short list of questions. While we’re always happy to answer them in person, we thought that you might appreciate some quick and dirty answers to our […]

7 Questions & Answers On Cunnilingus

Saturday, January 5th, 2013

How do you incorporate hands and fingers into going down on a woman? You can start out with a lubed hand massaging the labia to help “wake up” the area. To understand the sensitivity of different areas, remember that the labia is similar to the shaft of a man’s penis and the clit is similar […]

Our Staff’s Desert Island DVD Porn Picks

Thursday, July 12th, 2012

With tens of thousands of porn titles to choose from, it can be a challenge to choose a DVD for a hot evening at home. To make it easier, we’ve polled our staff and come up with a not-quite-definitive list of dirty movies we’d take to a desert island. Here are some of our favorites. […]

6 Great Products for Gender Expression

Friday, July 6th, 2012

As trans people have become more visible in society, we’ve seen an increased demand for products tailored for gender expression. In general, nearly everything we offer at The Pleasure Chest can be used by anyone regardless of their gender identity, but here are a few of our favorite products that meet the needs of trans men, trans […]

8 Essentials to Fulfill Your “50 Shades” Fantasies

Thursday, April 26th, 2012

Has Fifty Shades of Grey turned you on to the erotic possibilities of bondage and submission? If so, you won’t want to miss our new workshop Fifty Shades of Pleasure, which will teach you how to safely explore your kinky fantasies. If you want to play like Grey, here are eight essentials you’ll need, paired […]

5 Steps to Finding & Enjoying Your G-Spot

Friday, March 9th, 2012

The G-Spot, also known as the urethral sponge, is the area inside a woman’s vagina that fills with fluid when aroused. It is analogous to the prostate in men, and is sometimes referred to as “the female prostate.” Many women have discovered that when applying direct pressure to the G-Spot, they can experience strong sensations, […]

40 Ways to Make Life Sexier

Saturday, September 24th, 2011

We asked our LA store staff for their favorite sex tips. Here’s what they said…   Wrestle! The physical contact will make you sweaty, get your heart rate up and make you laugh. -Alicia Buy a great lube, even if you think you don’t “need” one. Sometimes getting extra slippery can be just what the […]

Cunnilingus 101: Our Guide to Going Down

Monday, July 11th, 2011

We know they don’t teach cunnilingus in school, but that’s no excuse! If you want to be a good lover, you need to grow up and go down! Learning to give head can be intimidating, but there’s no need to get tongue-tied. Here are some suggestions for getting started.

Ladybits: Your Road Map

The first step to learning oral sex is to know the lay of the land. If you’re a man, it’s important to remember that all of the parts on a woman are analogous to your own. If you know what feels good on your body, you’ll have a good idea of what she’s feeling.

Bachelorette Basics

Thursday, March 31st, 2011

Why let guys have all the fun? A bachelorette party is the bride’s last hurrah. Here are some tips for sending her off in style.

  • Location! Location! Location! Depending on your guest of honor and her friends, your party can take many shapes.
  • Will you have an intimate dinner party? Or a wild night of bar hopping and strip clubs? Will you be in a hotel or cruising in a limo? This is all up to you and your guests.
  • If you’re looking to make the night interesting and educational, you may want to consider a Sex Toy Social. Learn about sex toys, take a quick class in oral sex or beginner’s bondage.

The choice is yours. Our Sex Specialists design a fun and informative presentation that can kick off your night or be its main event.

Let’s Tribate

Saturday, February 19th, 2011

The ancient Romans had a word (borrowed from Latin, naturally) for women who fucked other women: tribas. Thus, two or more ladyfuckers were sometimes called tribades and the word “tribadism,”—meaning to rub one’s pussy against a partner’s body—was born! End of history lesson. Let’s look at the many ways to get off like the tribades of Ancient Rome.

Rubbing one’s pussy against a partner’s body is the most common style of tribadism.