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Jan 05 2013

7 Questions & Answers On Blowjobs

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by thepleasurechest

How do you begin a blow job?

The best BJs begin with the brain. Both of you should be turned on for a good BJ. Build up the tension with dirty talk. Get your mouth warmed up with a hot makeout session.

How should you incorporate using your hands?

Use your hands to add friction. Hold the base of his cock to control the pace of the action. Use a finger to stimulate his perineum. Or, if you’ve negotiated it, slip a lubricated finger or two in his ass, to stimulate his prostate directly.

What about the balls?

Most guys like their balls being cupped during a blowjob. You can also use a finger or two to put pressure on the perineum (the taint) for an external prostate massage. If you press on this, you can really enhance a man’s orgasm.

Do you have to deep throat?

No, it’s not necessary. A lot of people want to learn how to deep throat, and it can be an amazing feeling for both partners. The secret is to position yourself to follow the natural curve of his cock, with the natural curve of your throat. Try it first with him on his back and you on your side. Keep your hand on the base of his cock to go at your own pace. Swallow when you feel like you have reached your limit which will help to go further and widen your throat. Don’t deep throat with a  full stomach. You can also simulate the sensation of deep throat by using a masturbation sleeve to stroke his shaft while sucking on the head of the penis.

Does it matter if you spit or swallow?

It’s up to you, but always negotiate this ahead of time. If you’re not fluid-bonded with a partner, use a condom.

What are some reasons that men can’t get hard, and should you push it if it’s not working?

There can be many reasons – erectile dysfunction, using alcohol and drugs, stress or exhaustion.  Sometimes, even if he’s in the mood, his penis isn’t. Never push. Move on to other things. Don’t make a big deal about it.

What’s the single best tip for giving great head?

The best BJs are really great hand jobs. Most guys need more friction than you can create with your mouth, so a great blowjob is often a combination of using your hand to tug on the penis while adding sensation and suction with your mouth.

Jan 05 2013

7 Questions & Answers
On Cunnilingus

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by thepleasurechest

How do you incorporate hands and fingers into going down on a woman?

You can start out with a lubed hand massaging the labia to help “wake up” the area. To understand the sensitivity of different areas, remember that the labia is similar to the shaft of a man’s penis and the clit is similar to the head of a penis. The labia responds to firm pressure, sucking, and light biting. You can also use the labia to massage the clit by gently pressing the lips together and kneading the clit between your fingers. Putting firm pressure on the mons pubis (the mound) and incorporating circular motions will also help to awake the nerves.

What should you do with the clitoris?

Some women like direct stimulation while others want indirect stimulation. In general, you should vary your licks and kisses until you find something she’s really responding to. Most women do not like a pointy hard tongue on the clit. Try flattening your tongue and using broad strokes. Don’t bite the clit. Don’t ignore the rest of the vulva. And don’t blow into the vaginal hole.

How much pressure should be applied to the vagina with the tongue?

This depends on the person but a good rule of thumb is to start off soft and apply more pressure as your progress. Pay attention to her body language. Often, when women want more they will thrust their hips towards your mouth.

What about toys? 

Toys are a great way to incorporate penetration. The most popular toy among our staff is the Pure Wand, which is perfectly designed for accessing the G-Spot. It’s also slender enough to stay out of your mouth’s way.

Should the motion of the tongue be slow or fast?

This really depends on the person, how sensitive she is and her stage of arousal. But once you’ve found the movement that works, repetition is key.

Does penetration have to happen? If so, how?

It doesn’t have to happen but it is a good idea to explore. Some women need both internal and external stimulation to be able to orgasm. Start with a wet or lubed finger at the opening. If she responds well, insert two fingers and curl up towards her belly button, where the G-Spot lives. A firm “come hither” motion (or milking the G-Spot) is a good way to access that tissue and excite those nerves.

Any other cunnilingus tips?

A big misconception is that people should write the alphabet with their tongue. This is silly, because when you’re concentrating on letters in your head, you’re not paying attention to her signals in the moment. Rather than writing a poem on her clit with your tongue, think of cunnilingus as a really small blowjob. Try creating suction around the clit with your mouth and using a flat tongue to move back and forth. And, as always, enthusiasm and appreciation of a woman’s body is very important, especially during oral sex.

For more information, read Cunnilingus 101: Our Guide to Going Down. 

Jan 02 2013

Amp Up Your Sex LifeFree Workshops in New York!

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by thepleasurechest

Get your new year off to a sexy start and come check out one of our free workshops. This month, our Sex Specialists share their best tips and tricks for giving great head, expanding your orgasm and bending over your boyfriend. Special guest educator Ducky Doolittle will discuss breaking your bedroom routine and amping up your sex life. Read ahead for our full schedule through the end of March!

Blowjobs & Beyond with Ignacio
Wednesday, January 9th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Want to have him squirming in his seat? Our Sex Specialists will show you how to use your mouth, hands, and more to give mind-blowing blowjobs. We’ll cover male anatomy, tips and tricks, the truths and myths of “deep throat” plus other sexy secrets that are sure to have him begging for more.

The Ultimate O with Laura
Wednesday, January 16th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Maybe you’ve never had one, maybe you have but you’re still not sure what all the fuss is about, or maybe you’re an orgasm overachiever with an unquenchable thirst for knowledge. Whatever your reason for taking this class, you’ll learn all about anatomy, techniques for coming with a partner or solo, how masturbation can help you expand your orgasm, G-Spot orgasms, anal orgasms, and, of course, our Sex Specialists’ favorite tips and toys.

Amp it Up! With Ducky Doolittle
Wednesday, January 23rd @ 8-10pm FREE!

Tired of the same old routine? Sometimes it’s normal to feel stuck in a rut. Let Ducky help kickstart your sex drive. Learn to develop super fun flirtation skills and deepen your understanding of pleasure anatomy. Ducky will teach techniques for using everything you’ve got – from the tip of your tongue to your fingers and toes. Learn how to introduce sex toys into your partner play and discover which products are the healthiest and highest quality, while delivering the best bang for your buck.

Bend Over Buddy with Laura & Jesse
Wednesday, January 30th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Is your bedroom buddy just begging for some anal attention? In this workshop, we’ll teach you how to get your guy on-board for some ass loving. If you don’t know how to approach the subject (or their sphincter), we’ll give you tips on communication, the pleasures of perineum and prostate play, strap-on sex, anal sex safety, and the best toys and tricks to arouse him anally. This class will focus on bending over your boyfriend, but all genders and orientations are welcome.

Coming up…

2/6- 50 Shades of Pleasure with Ignacio

2/20- Blowjobs & Beyond with Brandon B.

2/27- Sex for Survivors with Ducky Doolittle

3/6- Strap On Sex for Lesbians, Dykes, and Queers with Ignacio

3/13- Pleasure Her Perfect with Laura

3/20- Blowjobs & Beyond with Laura

3/27- Butt Sex Basics with Brandon B.

 

 

Jan 02 2013

Oral Sex, Tantra, Burlesque & BDSMJanuary in LA

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by thepleasurechest

It’s a new year. How about learning some new skills? Join us in January for classes on oral sex, tantra, bedroom burlesque and BDSM. Our workshops are open to people of all genders, orientations and experience levels. They’re also totally free of charge. Read on for a complete schedule of events for the next two months.

Performance Anxiety- Comedy Night at The Pleasure Chest
Tuesday, January 8th @ 8-10pm $7

Get your laughs and lube in the same place. Join us for the return of the ever popular Performance Anxiety, a comedy night hosted by Eli Olsberg and TJ Miller. For seven bucks, you can enjoy free beer, 15% off your purchases and live performances by some of the best comics working today. The show will feature appearances by Rob DelaneyTJ MillerKumail NanjianiJackie KashianKyle KinaneJane BordenJoe Starr and Billy Bonnell.

Suck It, Lick It, Love It with Alicia & Kate
Wednesday, January 9th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Our Sex Specialists share tips and tricks to get you in the spirit of giving and receiving amazing oral sex. We’ll cover anatomy basics, giving mind-blowing blowjobs, eating pussy like a pro, lending your mouth a hand (literally) to please your partner, and the best toys to accessorize your licks, sucks, and squeezes

 

Tantric Erogenous Zones : An Experiential Workshop with Mark A. Michaels & Patricia Johnson
Wednesday, January 16th @ 8-10pm FREE!

The Tantric and Ayurvedic traditions have long recognized specific zones of the body that are particularly responsive to stimulation, and some schools of Tantra have developed a systematic approach to the stimulation of these zones in order to produce high states of arousal. Mark A. Michaels and Patricia Johnson, authors of Great Sex Made Simple, will introduce you to these zones and the basic principles for working with them systematically to heighten pleasure and enhance intimacy.

Performance Anxiety- Comedy Night at The Pleasure Chest
Tuesday, January 22nd @ 8-10pm $7

Get your laughs and lube in the same place. Join us for the return of the ever popular Performance Anxiety, a comedy night hosted by Eli Olsberg and TJ Miller. For seven bucks, you can enjoy free beer, 15% off your purchases and live performances by some of the best comics working today. Guests TBA.

Photo courtesy of David Gueringer

Bedroom Burlesque with Kitty Cadillac
Wednesday, January 23rd @ 8-10pm FREE!

Learn how to take it off like a pro! Join Sex Specialist Kitty Cadillac as she shows you how to tantalize and tease your lover in the bedroom. Put on a private show they won’t forget. She will guide you through hot exotic dance moves, sensual glove and stocking peels, and how to give a sexy lap dance. It’s role playing at its finest!

Fifty Shades of Pleasure with Mary
Wednesday, January 30th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Inspired by E.L. James’s “Fifty Shades” books which have become a kinky cultural phenomenon, our special workshop on bedroom bondage will introduce you to the joys of erotic surrender. We’ll revisit the hottest activities from the books and give you ideas on how to incorporate them into your bedroom adventures. We’ll discuss bondage, roleplay, toys, negotiations, contracts and much, much more. This class is open to couples and singles of all experience levels.

Coming up…

2/6- Blowjobs & Beyond with Sex Nerd Sandra

2/20- G-Spot & Female Ejaculation with Sarah & Larkin

2/26- Performance Anxiety- Comedy Night at The Pleasure Chest

2/27- Threesomes with Reid Mihalko

Jan 02 2013

Rob Delaney, TJ Miller & MorePerformance Anxiety- January 8th

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by thepleasurechest

Join us on Tuesday, January 8th at 8pm for another evening of Performance Anxiety, the twice-monthly comedy night hosted by Eli Olsberg at our West Hollywood store.

For just $7, you get free beer, 15% off your purchases and an evening with some of the best comics working today.

The show will feature appearances by Rob Delaney, TJ Miller, Kumail Nanjiani, Jackie Kashian, Kyle Kinane, Jane Borden, Joe Starr and Billy Bonnell.

The show is first come, first served and you are encouraged to buy tickets in advance to guarantee a seat.

Please enjoy Kinky Sex with Rob Delaney and Sharon Horgan.

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