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Dec 05 2016

Advent Calendar Day 5: OhMiBod Lovelife Snuggle + Pjur Aqua

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by Chelsea

Welcome to the fifth day of our 2016 Holiday Advent Calendar, where we’re giving away 30 prizes in 24 days, including many of our favorite toys! Every day, we’ll be posting a new contest and linking to it from the Holiday Advent Calendar main page, where you can also find more details and tips for how to win.

Today, we’re giving away an OhMiBod Lovelife Snuggle:

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Get cuddly with the Lovelife Snuggle! This rabbit-style vibe features two quiet but powerful motors for clitoral and G-spot stimulation. Made with body-safe silicone, the Snuggle has seven pulsation patterns and is USB rechargeable. This splash-proof toy comes with a one year warranty.

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But wait! There’s more: We’re also throwing in a bottle of Pjur Aqua lubricant!

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Want to win? Here’s how: It’s #MusicMonday, so we want to know: what song was playing when you lost your virginity? Tomorrow at 11:30am, we’ll pick our favorite and the person who submitted it will win!

U.S. residents only.

 

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Dec 04 2016

Advent Calendar Day 4: Tantus Sam (Cocoa)

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by Chelsea

Welcome to the fourth day of our 2016 Holiday Advent Calendar, where we’re giving away 30 prizes in 24 days, including many of our favorite toys! Every day, we’ll be posting a new contest and linking to it from the Holiday Advent Calendar main page, where you can also find more details and tips for how to win.

Today, we’re giving away a Tantus Sam Dildo (in Cocoa):


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Sam is the largest addition to Tantus’ unique line of vibrating realistic toys in Tantus’ O2 Dual Density Silicone. Sam comes with a waterproof vibrator and suction cup, perfect for gender fluid strap-on play, or as a favorite toy on the wall. Bigger than average at 1.8” wide and 7.3” long, Sam continues the line of realistic adult toys that look – and feel – remarkably real. Tantus’ Realistic O2 Toys feature detailed skin texture, pores, veins, and wrinkles in three realistic skin colors. These Dual Density Toys are made of 100% Ultra-Premium Silicone with a Super Soft outer layer and firm inner core.

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Want to win? Here’s how: We know the Sam is a lot to handle, so we want to hear your stories…did you ever come across a dick that was too big? Tell us your size stories! Tomorrow at 11:30am, we’ll pick our favorite and the person who submitted it will win!

U.S. residents only.

 

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Dec 03 2016

Advent Calendar Day 3: Fun Factory Lady Bi

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by Chelsea

UPDATE: CONGRATS TO LIA, OUR WINNER!

Welcome to the third day of our 2016 Holiday Advent Calendar, where we’re giving away 30 prizes in 24 days, including many of our favorite toys! Every day, we’ll be posting a new contest and linking to it from the Holiday Advent Calendar main page, where you can also find more details and tips for how to win.

Today, we’re giving away a Fun Factory Lady Bi:

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Double your pleasure, double your fun with the Lady Bi! This longer, firmer alternative to the Miss Bi features two rumbly motors and a sizable silicone body designed to hug your G-spot and clit. The waterproof Lady Bi also doubles as an anal toy, and features 6 vibration intensities and rhythms. This toy is USB rechargeable comes with a two year manufacturer’s warranty.

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Want to win? Here’s how: Location, location, location: we want to hear about your city or town’s sexiest spot! Whether it’s Lovers Lane or Plato’s Retreat, we want to hear what your homwtown has to offer. Tomorrow at 11:30am, we’ll pick our favorite and the person who submitted it will win!

U.S. residents only.

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Dec 02 2016

Advent Calendar Day 2: Fleshlight Go Torque

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by Chelsea

UPDATE: CONGRATS TO BEN, OUR WINNER!

Welcome to the second day of our 2016 Holiday Advent Calendar, where we’re giving away 30 prizes in 24 days, including many of our favorite toys! Every day, we’ll be posting a new contest and linking to it from the Holiday Advent Calendar main page, where you can also find more details and tips for how to win.

Today, we’re giving away a Fleshlight GO Torque:

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See yourself (or your lover) get off with the crystal clear Fleshlight GO Torque Ice! This compact, travel-friendly version of the classic Ice features the silky feel of Fleshlight’s one of a kind SuperSkin, with a rounded clear case that magnifies the action. Winter is coming, and so will you!

Want to win? Here’s how: Now that the holiday season is in full swing, we want you to #SexUpAHolidayFilm i.e., take your favorite holiday film title and give it a dirty new name. Tomorrow at 11:30am, we’ll pick our favorite and the person who submitted it will win!

U.S. residents only.

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Dec 01 2016

Advent Calendar Day 1: Magic Wand Rechargeable

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by Chelsea

UPDATE: CONGRATS TO CAITLIN, OUR WINNER!

Welcome to the first day of our 2016 Holiday Advent Calendar, where we’re giving away 30 prizes in 24 days, including many of our favorite toys! Every day, we’ll be posting a new contest and linking to it from the Holiday Advent Calendar main page, where you can also find more details and tips for how to win.

 

Today, we’re giving away a Magic Wand Rechargeable – yes, the vibrator that’s famous for being ultra-super-duper powerful. You’re welcome.

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With four speeds — including one that’s even stronger than the Magic Wand Original’s top setting — and four thrilling vibration patterns, this is the wand you’ve been dreaming of. An updated version of the classic powerhouse vibe, the Magic Wand Rechargeable can be used with or without its 7ft cord, so you never have to worry about finding an outlet or running out of battery. We didn’t think that this tried and true toy could get any better, but it did!

 

Want to win? Here’s how: add a caption to the photo below.  Tomorrow at 11:30am, we’ll pick our favorite and the person who submitted it will win the Magic Wand!

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U.S. residents only.

 

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Nov 30 2016

2016 Holiday Advent Calendar!

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by Chelsea

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Bookmark this blog post because you’re going to want to visit it every day. From December 1st through December 24th, we’re giving away a prize (or more!) a day from our very own holiday advent calendar. We’ll be offering all kinds of goodies, including some of our favorite toys of the year!

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Day 1: Magic Wand Rechargeable

Day 2: Fleshlight GO Torque

Day 3: Fun Factory Lady Bi

Day 4: Tantus Sam and Pjur Aqua

Each day shortly after noon PST, we’ll post a new prize and link to it above. Follow the link to enter that day’s contest.

At 11:30AM the next day, we’ll announce the previous day’s winner! So easy!

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Pro Tip: Follow us on Twitter, Facebook, and Instagram. We’ll be posting our contest links on all platforms!

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You can win a maximum of three times from the same IP address.

U.S. residents only.

 

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Nov 29 2016

Toy Crush Tuesday: The Magic Wand Original

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by Chelsea

This week, we’re kicking it old school with the classic Magic Wand. This toy is an absolute legend!

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The only toy fit for a sexual sorcerer, it is widely known as the standard of power to which all other vibrators are compared. Plug it in and the Magic Wand’s large, flexible head can be used to massage any part of the body, including your very own lucky charm, for an orgasmic experience that’s almost otherworldly.

It’s been around since the 1968, when it was introduced as a personal massager for relieving sore muscles. It didn’t take long for people to realize it had a much sexier destiny.

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The Magic Wand (formerly known as the Hitachi Magic Wand) is well known as one of the most powerful vibrators you can buy. The intense vibrations are so powerful that many people don’t even have to make direct contact with their genitals to reach orgasm. The vibrations are REALLY deep and rumbly. For this reason, the Magic Wand is ideal for folks who have trouble reaching orgasm.

The Magic Wand is built to last. I’ve had mine for over a decade (it’s the longest and most stable relationship I’ve ever had), and it’s still going strong. And at a price of under $59.95, it really can’t be beat.

Magic Wand, Je t’aime!

 

 

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Nov 28 2016

Girls Getting Bi: On Sexing Up the Same Sex

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by Chelsea

Listen up, ladies: it’s 2017. While we don’t have hoverboards or jetpacks, we do have a wide new world of sexual identification and exploration. If you have always been curious about exploring your sexuality with another woman, now is the time to do it! We’ve reached peak cultural acceptance of sexual fluidity, and meeting other like-minded women has never been easier. Here are my top 6 tips to exploring your bisexuality!

1. Get To Know Yourself (and by “yourself” I mean your vagina)

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This is good advice for any kind of sex (straight, gay, pan, etc.). The best way to know what you like and how you like it is to explore on yourself. Touch yourself, and really pay attention to what you like and how you like it. Do you prefer clitoral stimulation or penetration? Or is it both? Because of the patriarchy, women are taught that their vaginas are dirty or unclean, which is absurd and anti-feminist. By knowing how to please yourself, you will be able to communicate what you like to any future partners. PLUS, what works for you may very well work on the woman you’re sleeping with. This is what we call the home court advantage.

2. Watch Sex-Positive Queer Porn

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When most folks think of lesbian porn, they conjure an image of ultra-femme women with long hair and longer nails half-heartedly scissoring each other. This kind of porn is made for the male gaze, i.e. all titillation and zero instruction. Explore the world of women-created/queer-created ethical porn. Some of our favorites are the Crash Pad Series or Fuckstyles 2: Dirty FucksTreat yourself to a site subscription and explore! There’s not just “one way” to have queer sex, and this is a great way to explore sexual diversity from the safety of your laptop. If you’d rather read something raunchy, get your hands on Girl Sex 101 or Hot Lesbian Erotica.

3. Hit The Club…or bar or poetry reading…

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Ready to flirt but don’t know where to start? Hit up your local lesbian bar/club night. Or if you’re not much for the nightlife, volunteer at your local LGBT center or AmBi group. Go to book readings by queer authors. Patronize queer businesses. If you’re a college student, get involved with your campus’s LGBTQ center. There’s tons of like-minded ladies out there, just waiting to meet you!

4. Apps, Apps, Apps

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Looking to get frisky fast? Dating apps are the answer to your prayers. Try a queer app like HER  or all-inclusive apps like Tinder, Hinge, or Bumble. Be honest and upfront about what you’re looking for, whether it’s a serious relationship or a one night stand. Even if it isn’t a match, you can still make great friends and expand your queer community. This is also great for meeting other bi-curious women in the same boat as you.

5. Be Aggressive…Be Be Aggressive! 

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Let me clarify: I don’t mean “aggressive” as in pushy or rude or cocky. I’m talking about taking initiative. If you’re used to hetero relationships, you may be used to being pursued. Our society loves gender roles, one of the most popular being the man as the pursuer. But in queer relationships, you really have to put yourself out there. Sorry shy girls, but you have to make an active effort to flirt. Initiate a conversation with the woman you’re interested in. Get to know her and be engaged. Smile and make eye contact. Touch her elbow when she says something funny. Ask her to dance. Read her cues: if she’s interested, the conversation will flow. If she’s looking over your shoulder and giving you one word answers, say good night and move on. Be bold and be confident…or fake it! And relax…you’re not solving the riddle of the sphinx, you’re just chatting up another carbon-based life form.

6. Be Honest and Own Your Newbness

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Maybe you’re worried about your lack of experience. Maybe it’s your first night in a gay bar. Maybe you’re in between a girl’s legs without the faintest idea of what you’re doing! Remember, no one came out of the womb as a sexpert. We’ve all been virgins or first-timers at some point in our lives. Let your partner know your experience level, and what you’re comfortable doing or not doing. Ask for advice and guidance. Find out what she likes. Ask questions. Be the Hermione Granger of her vagina. Don’t be afraid to own your newb-ness: it’s endearing and adorable. Be yourself, and confidence will follow.

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Nov 22 2016

Spank Someone Happy!

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by Carly

Sexy spanking is been popular with a huge range of folks, from the kinkiest & most experienced BDSM players to “vanilla” couples who are looking to spice things up in the bedroom. Spanking can be hot, playful, intense, cathartic, fun, bonding, and can even make you more orgasmic! All your need to get started is your body and a consenting partner…

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WHY ARE PEOPLE INTO THIS?

It feels good!
Certain parts of the ass share nerve groups with genitals – stimulation of these nerve groups in the ass “echoes” in the genitals. Spanking also releases delicious chemicals in your brain. As you begin with some gentle, loving warm up touches, the skin to skin contact releases oxytocin. As you build up to the harder hits, endorphins and adrenaline are released, combining to create an incredible natural high!

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Having sexy time that is not just focused on genitals or penetration will wake up your whole body, make you more tuned in to all sensations, and build you up eventually to a more fulfilling orgasm & better sex.  Starting with spanking can help take the pressure off of orgasm as a goal, because so much conscious attention is being given to all the senses and other parts of the body! (Spanking doesn’t even have to always lead to sex, it can just exist on its own as a pleasurable exchange of sensation.)

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Power dynamics are sexy!
The biggest, most important sex organ is your MIND! Playing with power dynamics different from your experience in day to day life can be a huge turn on.
As a bottom/sub: You get the rare experience of total surrender, in a safe space. For folks who get in their heads during sex, being spanked is an amazing way to let go and be present in your body.
As a Top/Dom: You get the experience of having total control in a safe space & in ways you cannot have in real life. You get to be the conductor of your lover’s sensations and experiences, and offer them the gift of total surrender.
Bonus: You don’t have to stick to just one role – switch it up and see how you like it!

New experiences make you feel closer to your partner!
Spicing things ups not only is a great way to discover what turns you on – new experiences actually flood your brain with dopamine, and doing this with a partner creates bonding on a chemical level. Spanking and other kinky activities require an extra level of trust between partners.

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It can be cathartic, empowering and healing!
Spanking often goes hand in hand with roleplay, allowing for psychological exploration on top of sensation exploration. It can be extremely cathartic to have a safe space in which to play the role of someone we are not usually allowed to be (submissive, brat, helpless, defiant, slut, dominant, villain, disciplinarian, controlling, teasing, cruel, etc.). Spanking & role play can even be a way folks who’ve survived trauma to regain ownership and power of their body and their sexuality.

HOW DO I BRING THIS UP WITH MY PARTNER?

Okay, so you want to get your spank on, but you’re not sure how to ask your partner.
Here are some great ways to ease into the subject:
– I read an article about…
– I attended a workshop about… (we offer them for FREE at all our locations!)
– I’d love to try something new with you…
– I have a friend who told me about…
– I saw a really hot scene in a movie/porn…
– I read a really hot scene in a book/story…
– I had a really hot dream about…

PRO TIP: Spanking is, for many folks, a gateway into exploring more kinky sex. If you want to get into roleplay, bondage, dominance/submission, or hitting with more intense implements, spanking is a great first activity to suggest!

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WARM UP:

Don’t start right in with the hard hits! Set the mood and relax your partner, establish connection with skin to skin contact. Begin with sensual loving touches, massage your partner, use a feather tickler, wake up and engage the whole body. Pleasurable stimulation of all kinds (including gentle touches on the ass and genitals) are a great way to get all parties excited for what’s about to go down. If you’re doing a roleplay, this is a great time to set the scene and be in character.

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SAFETY ANATOMY – WHERE CAN I HIT?

When you get kinky with someone you want to make sure you’re practicing SSC (Safe Sane & Consensual) or RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). Make sure you negotiate beforehand with your lover to get the following clear: who can hit who, where on the body it will happen, any existing injuries, medical conditions or emotional triggers to avoid. Even when you are purposefully stimulating your partner with pain, you want it to hurt them but not harm them (long-term serious injury). Be sure to also negotiate if and where you can leave markings (bruises).

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Safe Places to Hit = the fleshy bits that are away from organs and bones!
Ass (recommended for beginners)
Thighs (recommended for beginners, more painful than the ass)
Upper Back
Chest/Breasts
Back of Legs
Biceps
Palms of Hands
Soles of Feet
Face (cheeks only)
Genitals (go easy)

Never Ever Ever Hit = organs and bones!
Lower Back/Kidneys
Spine
Skull
Knees
Where Joints Bend


BASIC TECHNIQUE:

Switch It Up:
Make sure you are not hitting the same spot over and over again, or favoring one side. This feels more irritating than sexy for most bottoms. Encourage your bottom to speak up about other places that might want attention, especially when you’re first learning their body.

The Sweet Spot:

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The Sweet Spot to hit is the lower inner part of buttocks. When you hit here, you are impacting the shared nerve endings that connect with the genitals, delivering some serious pleasure with your pain. This is also the part that takes the most weight when you sit down later, so you can ensure your bottom will have a sexy physical reminder.

Positions:
First figure out what part of the body you want to spank and make sure you have access to it. Consider what is comfortable and sustainable for both the giver and receiver.

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– Over the knee is where the top sits and has the bottom on their lap. OTK is a classic spanking position for a reason! It allows for physical intimacy (lots of body touching body) and easy access to the ass, thighs, genitals and face. This is a great position for beginners, and is most comfortable on a couch.
– Bottom bending over a bed, chair, table, sex wedge, etc.
– Bottom leaning against a wall, couch, etc.
– Bottom bends over and grabs their ankles or knees
– Bottom on hands and knees (on the floor, on a bed, etc.)
– Bottom laying flat on a bed

Ways to Hit:

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– Flat hand (stingy for all partners)
– Cupped hand (less hard on the giver, makes a nice resonant sound)
– Soft touches with the fingertips
– Fingernails
– Massage/squish the flesh
– French Flip (use both sides of the hand, flipping back and forth)
– Silk or Leather Gloves (sensual texture, less stingy)

Get Into It:
– Pain & Pleasure Cocktail: alternate stingy hits with soft fingertips on the tender flesh, add in a caress of the genitals and/or a kiss on the mouth every now and then
– Dress Up: fully embody your role & give your partner some visual stimulation by wearing something that makes you feel dominant/submissive and sexy af!
– Dirty Talk: a hot addition to the spanking experience, tell your bottom “You’ve been very naughty and now I’m going to punish you” or “I know you like being spanked, I can feel you getting [wet/hard/etc.] right now”
– Hair Pulling: grab a large amount of hair close to the skull and show your bottom who’s in control (don’t yank their skull and don’t pull their hair out!)
– Face Slapping: if you’ve gotten permission in advance, give your bottom a little slap on the face (cheek) to put them in their place
– Blindfold: if you’re nervous about looking cool while giving a spanking, just blindfold your bottom à taking away their sense of sight will make them focus more intensely on every sound and touch
– Butt Plugs: insert your bottom’s favorite plug for some serious extra pleasure
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AFTERCARE:

Aftercare is just what it sounds like – physical and emotional acts of care and comfort that follow a spanking (or any other kinky activities). Both tops and bottoms need aftercare! Hitting someone/getting hit can be surprisingly physically and emotionally draining. This is something that should be negotiated beforehand – but be flexible because you or your partner might have needs that change based on what just went down.

Physical
If bottoms have any markings/bruising, attend to those first. A warm washcloth is very nice, following by an arnica salve (helps soothes and heal bruises). Some people may also want an ice pack or frozen peas on their bruises to help reduce swelling. Tops might have sore arms/shoulders that need a massage.
Make sure everyone drinks some water or tea or Gatorade, and get a nice snack (nuts, chocolate, fruit, etc.).

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Emotional
 Everyone reacts differently – you might not react in the way that you expected. It’s ok to laugh, cry, be mad, be quiet, need space or need lots of TLC after a spanking scene. Cuddling is very popular aftercare, because it re-grounds both partners into an obviously loving & caring dynamic with each other. It also releases more of that sweet, sweet oxytocin.

Follow Up
It’s good form to follow up with your partner a few more time after your initial aftercare. Check on your partner again the next day, and a couple days later. Sometimes feelings come up for folks after a little time has passed. Check in, listen and see what your lover needs.

Now go forth and SPANK!!!

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Nov 18 2016

Give Thanks and Win a Lelo Tiani 3!

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by Chelsea

UPDATE: CONGRATS TO SARAH, OUR WINNER!

Thanksgiving is just around the corner, and we’re thankful for our lovely customers and friends! 2016 has been a real kick in the junk, but we’ve been grateful to be a part of this loving, diverse, and sex positive community.

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This week we’re giving away the Lelo Tiani 3:

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Enjoy the ultimate in couples toy technology with Lelo’s new Tiani 3. This toy features two strong, rumbly motors encased in smooth silicone for internal and external stimulation. It comes with a wireless remote control that works from a distance of up to 40 feet, and features Sense-Motion technology to create unique stimulation patterns with movements of the remote. This waterproof toy features 8 pleasure settings and comes with a one year warranty.

Want to win? Here’s how: tell us something/someone you’re thankful for in the comments.

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*US Residents only. Comment posts are subject to approval and may take a day or two to post.

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