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Mar 01 2013

Learn Something NewFree Workshops in Our NY Store

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by thepleasurechest

Are you curious about strap-ons? Want to brush up on your oral skills? Would you like to discover the joys of butt sex? Let our seasoned Sex Specialists show you the ropes at one of our free workshops. Here’s what we’ve got planned for March in our New York store.

Strap On Sex for Lesbians, Dykes, and Queers with Ignacio
Wednesday, March 6th @ 8-10pm FREE!

This strap-on sex workshop is for anyone lesbian, queer, or dyke-identified. We’ll cover how to choose the best harness and dildo for you, enhancing satisfaction for both partners, double dildos, strap-on anal sex, owning your cock, queer gender expression, and sucking strap-on cock. A great class to learn the basics of dildo harnesses or pick up some new tips and tricks! FtM and MtF folks who love to (or want to learn how to) have great strap-on sex are welcome.

Pleasure Her Perfect with Laura
Wednesday, March 13th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Our Sex Specialists have the lady-loving tips and tricks to make you more pleasure proficient. Discover techniques for expanding a woman’s orgasm, out-of-this-world oral sex, G-spot stimulation, and much more! Whether solo or with a partner, this class is perfect for anyone interested in being a connoisseur of female sexuality.

Blowjobs & Beyond with Laura
Wednesday, March 20th @ 8-10pm – FREE!

Want to have him squirming in his seat? Our Sex Specialists will show you how to use your mouth, hands, and more to give mind-blowing blowjobs. We’ll cover male anatomy, tips and tricks, the truths and myths of “deep throat” plus other sexy secrets that are sure to have him begging for more.

Butt Sex Basics with Brandon B.

Wednesday, March 27th @ 8pm FREE!

In this workshop, no topic on taking it up the ass is taboo. Learn why a warm-up is important before anal exercise, why lube is your butt’s BFF, and how building comfort and trust with your partner can dispel common concerns such as pain or cleanliness. We’ll show you our favorite toys, how to use them solo or with a partner, cover the perks of having a prostate, anal g-spot stimulation, and toy and partner safety.

Feb 28 2013

Tantra, Hand Sex, Dirty Talk & MoreMarch in Chicago

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by thepleasurechest

Q. Where can you learn about tantra, spanking and oral sex, join a naughty knitting circle and enjoy a night of free comedy in a room full of buttplugs? A. Only at The Pleasure Chest Chicago in March.

Not Your Grandma’s Knitting Night
Monday, March 4th @ 7-9pm FREE!

Ever wanted to knit a blanket while surrounded by sex toys? Here’s your chance! Bring your yarn and relax with some hot tea and hotter conversation. We’ll give you some sexy patterns that you can use to give some new life to an old craft.

Tantra for Beginners with Reid Mihalko
Tuesday, March 5th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Join sex and relationship educator Reid Mihalko for a fun, light-hearted romp into the world of sacred sexuality. Explore enhanced lovemaking techniques, communication skills helpful for deepening intimacy, and breathing techniques to increase your arousal and sexual stamina in this workshop designed for anyone curious about Tantra, bettering their relationships, and having fun in the bedroom.

Hand Sex with Reid Mihalko
Wednesday, March 6th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Want to have your partner’s pleasure literally “in your hands?” Let Reid Mihalko show you how to utilize the nerves in your fingers and hands to “listen” to and track your partner’s sexual response. Discover how to make them squeal with tricks for the G-Spot, P-spot, and more. Reid will bring fruit for a hands-on demonstration, so you can practice getting fresh with produce!

Suck It, Lick It, Love It with Ethan Marie
Wednesday, March 13th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Our Sex Specialists share tips and tricks to get you in the spirit of giving and receiving amazing oral sex. We’ll cover anatomy basics, giving mind-blowing blow-jobs, eating pussy like a pro, lending your mouth a hand (literally) to please your partner, and the best toys to accessorize your licks, sucks, and squeezes.

Performance Anxiety- Comedy Night at The Pleasure Chest
Monday, March 18th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Get your laughs and lube in the same place. Join us for Performance Anxiety, a comedy night hosted by Caitlin Bergh and Rhea Butcher and featuring live performances by some of the best comics working today. As a bonus, all audience members get 15% off their purchases on the night of the show. Comics TBA.

Impact Play: Spanking, Flogging & More with Sarah Sloane
Wednesday, March 20th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Do you want to know more about striking your partner or being stricken as a form of erotic discipline? Learn the finer (and rougher) points of impact play at this workshop. We’ll cover negotiation, safety, types of hits, and the hows, whys, and wheres of floggers, paddles, and whips.

Talk Dirty to Me: Roleplay & Fantasy in the Bedroom with Shawne’
Wednesday, March 27th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Learn to please your partner using dirty language, prurient pillow talk and filthy fantasies. Go beyond “playing doctor” to discover the delights of roleplay. Our silver-tongued Sex Specialists will show you how to enhance your sex life using your imagination, costumes, theatricality and the simple spoken word.

Feb 28 2013

Free Workshops for All Experience LevelsMarch in Los Angeles

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by thepleasurechest

Our workshops just keep getting more popular. We had huge turnouts in February as curious folks came to learn about everything from G-Spots to threesomes. This month, we’ve got a little something for everybody, with introductory classes on anal sex and bondage and advanced workshops on blowjobs and “extreme sex.” No matter what your gender, orientation or experience level, there’s a class for you in March. Join us!

Butt Sex Basics with Alicia Cybulski
Wednesday, March 6th @ 8-10pm FREE!

In this workshop, no topic on taking it up the ass is taboo. Learn why a warm-up is important before anal exercise, why lube is your butt’s BFF, and how building comfort and trust with your partner can dispel common concerns such as pain or cleanliness. We’ll show you our favorite toys, how to use them solo or with a partner, cover the perks of having a prostate, anal G-Spot stimulation, and toy and partner safety.

Performance Anxiety- Comedy Night at The Pleasure Chest
Tuesday, March 12h @ 8-10pm $7

Get your laughs and lube in the same place. Join us for the return of the ever popular Performance Anxiety, a comedy night hosted by Eli Olsberg. For seven bucks, you can enjoy free beer, 15% off your purchases and live performances by some of the best comics working today. This show’s guests include  Kurt BraunohlerTJ MillerDan LevyTommy JohnaginAparna NancherlaJared LoganKara Klenk and Rob O’ Reilly.

Head of the Class: Blowjobs 201 with Sex Nerd Sandra
Wednesday, March 13th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Want to give an even better blowjob? Let our Sex Specialist show you some new tricks and techniques. Learn how to find the perfect grip and mouth movement. Discover how to use your whole body to go the distance. Find new ways to tailor your blowjob to your specific partner. This class is for anyone who feels confident in giving head, but wants to take their skills to the next level.

Basic Bondage & Sensation Play with Mary
Wednesday, March 20th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Learn the essentials of bedroom bondage and sensation play. Our kink connoisseurs will show you the ropes, including how to communicate and negotiate for what you want. You’ll discover quick and easy bondage techniques and how to use blindfolds, feathers, massage candles and other items to play with your partner’s sensations. People of all experience levels and orientations welcome.

Performance Anxiety- Comedy Night at The Pleasure Chest
Tuesday, March 26th @ 8-10pm $7

Get your laughs and lube in the same place. Join us for the return of the ever popular Performance Anxiety, a comedy night hosted by Eli Olsberg. For seven bucks, you can enjoy free beer, 15% off your purchases and live performances by some of the best comics working today. Guests TBA.

Extreme Sex with Damon Holzum
Wednesday, March 27th @ 8-10-pm FREE!

Do you want to discover and push the boundaries of your sexual exploration? Damon will guide you through the outer edges of erotic experience, including fisting, watersports, sounding and “dirty play.” This judgment-free class will focus on finding partners, safer sex practices, emotional safety and practical advice for a wide range of edgy fetishes.

Feb 12 2013

Blow Each Other Away with JaiyaFebruary 19th in New York

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by thepleasurechest

How can having great oral sex be as important as having great intercourse? The truth is that oral sex can actually be the key to unlocking sexual confidence, excitement, and intimacy. Unfortunately, shame, fear, and discomfort can stand in the way of a truly outstanding oral sex life.

Join us on Tuesday, February 19th at 8pm in our New York store for Blow Each Other Away. Author and sex therapist Jaiya will offer playful, practical advice for having adventurous and liberating oral sex. After the workshop, she’ll be available to sign copies of her new book, Blow Each Other Away.

Feb 01 2013

Blowjobs, G-Spots & ThreesomesFeburary in LA

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by thepleasurechest

February has finally arrived, and it’s our favorite time of the year. The store is full of people in love (or perhaps lust) buying naughty gifts for their valentines. To satisfy the horny masses, we’ve got three free workshops, including blowjobs with Sex Nerd Sandra, G-Spotting and female ejaculation with Sarah and Larkin, and threesomes with guest educator Reid Mihalko. All this and another installment of our Performance Anxiety comedy night await you in February.

Blowjobs & Beyond with Sex Nerd Sandra
Wednesday, February 6th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Want to have him squirming in his seat? Our Sex Specialists will show you how to use your mouth, hands, and more to give mind-blowing blowjobs. We’ll cover male anatomy, tips and tricks, the truths and myths of “deep throat” plus other sexy secrets that are sure to have him begging for more.

G-Spot & Female Ejaculation with Sarah & Larkin
Wednesday, February 20th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Looking for an all-over orgasm? Seeking the ever-elusive female ejaculation? This class will provide you with tips and techniques to expand your orgasm, both with your partner and on your own. For years the existence of the G-Spot has been rejected while some have hailed it as the ultimate pleasure center; come find out what the buzz is about!

Performance Anxiety- Comedy Night at The Pleasure Chest
Tuesday, February 26th @ 8-10pm $7

Get your laughs and lube in the same place. Join us for the return of the ever popular Performance Anxiety, a comedy night hosted by Eli Olsberg and TJ Miller. For seven bucks, you can enjoy free beer, 15% off your purchases and live performances by some of the best comics working today. Guests TBA.

Threesomes with Reid Mihalko
Wednesday, February 27th @ 8-10pm FREE!

It’s a popular fantasy with twice the pleasure potential, but navigating a three-way romance (if only for one night) can be tricky. Sex educator Reid Mihalko will teach techniques to satisfy two lovers at once, ways to overcome fears and concerns, the most common threesome mistakes and how to avoid them, and how to negotiate boundaries and safer sex protocols to make your next ménage à trois très bien!

Jan 02 2013

Amp Up Your Sex LifeFree Workshops in New York!

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by thepleasurechest

Get your new year off to a sexy start and come check out one of our free workshops. This month, our Sex Specialists share their best tips and tricks for giving great head, expanding your orgasm and bending over your boyfriend. Special guest educator Ducky Doolittle will discuss breaking your bedroom routine and amping up your sex life. Read ahead for our full schedule through the end of March!

Blowjobs & Beyond with Ignacio
Wednesday, January 9th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Want to have him squirming in his seat? Our Sex Specialists will show you how to use your mouth, hands, and more to give mind-blowing blowjobs. We’ll cover male anatomy, tips and tricks, the truths and myths of “deep throat” plus other sexy secrets that are sure to have him begging for more.

The Ultimate O with Laura
Wednesday, January 16th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Maybe you’ve never had one, maybe you have but you’re still not sure what all the fuss is about, or maybe you’re an orgasm overachiever with an unquenchable thirst for knowledge. Whatever your reason for taking this class, you’ll learn all about anatomy, techniques for coming with a partner or solo, how masturbation can help you expand your orgasm, G-Spot orgasms, anal orgasms, and, of course, our Sex Specialists’ favorite tips and toys.

Amp it Up! With Ducky Doolittle
Wednesday, January 23rd @ 8-10pm FREE!

Tired of the same old routine? Sometimes it’s normal to feel stuck in a rut. Let Ducky help kickstart your sex drive. Learn to develop super fun flirtation skills and deepen your understanding of pleasure anatomy. Ducky will teach techniques for using everything you’ve got – from the tip of your tongue to your fingers and toes. Learn how to introduce sex toys into your partner play and discover which products are the healthiest and highest quality, while delivering the best bang for your buck.

Bend Over Buddy with Laura & Jesse
Wednesday, January 30th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Is your bedroom buddy just begging for some anal attention? In this workshop, we’ll teach you how to get your guy on-board for some ass loving. If you don’t know how to approach the subject (or their sphincter), we’ll give you tips on communication, the pleasures of perineum and prostate play, strap-on sex, anal sex safety, and the best toys and tricks to arouse him anally. This class will focus on bending over your boyfriend, but all genders and orientations are welcome.

Coming up…

2/6- 50 Shades of Pleasure with Ignacio

2/20- Blowjobs & Beyond with Brandon B.

2/27- Sex for Survivors with Ducky Doolittle

3/6- Strap On Sex for Lesbians, Dykes, and Queers with Ignacio

3/13- Pleasure Her Perfect with Laura

3/20- Blowjobs & Beyond with Laura

3/27- Butt Sex Basics with Brandon B.

 

 

Jan 02 2013

Oral Sex, Tantra, Burlesque & BDSMJanuary in LA

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by thepleasurechest

It’s a new year. How about learning some new skills? Join us in January for classes on oral sex, tantra, bedroom burlesque and BDSM. Our workshops are open to people of all genders, orientations and experience levels. They’re also totally free of charge. Read on for a complete schedule of events for the next two months.

Performance Anxiety- Comedy Night at The Pleasure Chest
Tuesday, January 8th @ 8-10pm $7

Get your laughs and lube in the same place. Join us for the return of the ever popular Performance Anxiety, a comedy night hosted by Eli Olsberg and TJ Miller. For seven bucks, you can enjoy free beer, 15% off your purchases and live performances by some of the best comics working today. The show will feature appearances by Rob DelaneyTJ MillerKumail NanjianiJackie KashianKyle KinaneJane BordenJoe Starr and Billy Bonnell.

Suck It, Lick It, Love It with Alicia & Kate
Wednesday, January 9th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Our Sex Specialists share tips and tricks to get you in the spirit of giving and receiving amazing oral sex. We’ll cover anatomy basics, giving mind-blowing blowjobs, eating pussy like a pro, lending your mouth a hand (literally) to please your partner, and the best toys to accessorize your licks, sucks, and squeezes

 

Tantric Erogenous Zones : An Experiential Workshop with Mark A. Michaels & Patricia Johnson
Wednesday, January 16th @ 8-10pm FREE!

The Tantric and Ayurvedic traditions have long recognized specific zones of the body that are particularly responsive to stimulation, and some schools of Tantra have developed a systematic approach to the stimulation of these zones in order to produce high states of arousal. Mark A. Michaels and Patricia Johnson, authors of Great Sex Made Simple, will introduce you to these zones and the basic principles for working with them systematically to heighten pleasure and enhance intimacy.

Performance Anxiety- Comedy Night at The Pleasure Chest
Tuesday, January 22nd @ 8-10pm $7

Get your laughs and lube in the same place. Join us for the return of the ever popular Performance Anxiety, a comedy night hosted by Eli Olsberg and TJ Miller. For seven bucks, you can enjoy free beer, 15% off your purchases and live performances by some of the best comics working today. Guests TBA.

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Bedroom Burlesque with Kitty Cadillac
Wednesday, January 23rd @ 8-10pm FREE!

Learn how to take it off like a pro! Join Sex Specialist Kitty Cadillac as she shows you how to tantalize and tease your lover in the bedroom. Put on a private show they won’t forget. She will guide you through hot exotic dance moves, sensual glove and stocking peels, and how to give a sexy lap dance. It’s role playing at its finest!

Fifty Shades of Pleasure with Mary
Wednesday, January 30th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Inspired by E.L. James’s “Fifty Shades” books which have become a kinky cultural phenomenon, our special workshop on bedroom bondage will introduce you to the joys of erotic surrender. We’ll revisit the hottest activities from the books and give you ideas on how to incorporate them into your bedroom adventures. We’ll discuss bondage, roleplay, toys, negotiations, contracts and much, much more. This class is open to couples and singles of all experience levels.

Coming up…

2/6- Blowjobs & Beyond with Sex Nerd Sandra

2/20- G-Spot & Female Ejaculation with Sarah & Larkin

2/26- Performance Anxiety- Comedy Night at The Pleasure Chest

2/27- Threesomes with Reid Mihalko

Dec 29 2012

Blowjobs, Butt Sex & Knitting (Yes, Knitting)January in Chicago

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by thepleasurechest

A new year is here! Are you ready to bring some new skills into the bedroom? Join us for free workshops on kinky sex, butt sex, blowjobs and male orgasm. Also, check out our legendary knitting night and another installment of our monthly comedy showcase. Read on for our complete schedule through the end of March.

Not Your Grandma’s Knitting Night
Monday, January 7th @ 7-9pm FREE!

Ever wanted to knit a blanket while surrounded by sex toys? Here’s your chance! Bring your yarn and relax with some hot tea and hotter conversation. We’ll give you some sexy patterns that you can use to give some new life to an old craft.

The Ultimate O for Him with Sarah Sloane
Wednesday, January 9th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Want to blow his mind? In this class, you’ll learn the basics of men’s anatomy, while exploring the physical and psychological patterns of male arousal. Discover how to expand his pleasure through breathwork and other techniques and learn about the different types of orgasm (penile, prostate, energetic, etc.) This workshop is open to all genders and orientations, but will focus on male-bodied people and their partners.

Kinky Sex for Curious Couples with Antoinette & Ash
Wednesday, January 16th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Just because you’re not into chains and whips doesn’t mean you can’t enjoy a foray into the arousing world of kink. If your fantasies include blindfolds, role-playing, handcuffs, or any other naughty fun, our Sex Specialists can help take you from curious to light kink connoisseur.
 

Performance Anxiety- Comedy Night at The Pleasure Chest
Monday, January 21st @ 8-10pm FREE!

Get your laughs and lube in the same place. Join us for Performance Anxiety, a comedy night hosted by Caitlin Bergh and Rhea Butcher and featuring live performances by some of the best comics working today. As a bonus, all audience members get 15% off their purchases on the night of the show. Comics TBA.

Butt Sex Basics with Ethan Marie
Wednesday, January 23rd @ 8-10pm FREE!

In this workshop, no topic on taking it up the ass is taboo. Learn why a warm-up is important before anal exercise, why lube is your butt’s BFF, and how building comfort and trust with your partner can dispel common concerns such as pain or cleanliness. We’ll show you our favorite toys, how to use them solo or with a partner, cover the perks of having a prostate, anal g-spot stimulation, and toy and partner safety.

Blow Jobs & Beyond with Antoinette
Wednesday, January 30th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Want to have him squirming in his seat? Our Sex Specialists will show you how to use your mouth, hands, and more to give mind-blowing blow-jobs. We’ll cover male anatomy, tips and tricks, the truths and myths of “deep throat” plus other sexy secrets that are sure to have him begging for more.

Coming up…

2/4- Not Your Grandma’s Knitting Night

2/6- Sex Toys for Curious Couples with Sarah Sloane & Ash

2/18- Performance Anxiety- Comedy Night at The Pleasure Chest

2/20- G Spot & Female Ejaculation with Antoinette

2/27- Advanced Anal Play with Shawne’

3/4- Not Your Grandma’s Knitting Night

3/5- Tantra for Beginners with Reid Mihalko

3/6- Hand Sex with Reid Mihalko

3/13- Suck It, Lick It, Love It with Ethan Marie

3/18- Performance Anxiety- Comedy Night at The Pleasure Chest

3/20- Impact Play: Spanking, Flogging & More with Sarah Sloane

3/27- Talk Dirty to Me: Roleplay & Fantasy in the Bedroom with Shawne’

 

Dec 05 2012

Spank It, Suck It, Squirt ItFree Workshops in New York

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by thepleasurechest

The holidays are for sharing. So, we’d like to share some secrets with you. Come learn about the joys of spanking, sucking and squirting at our lineup of free workshops in New York this month!

Impact Play: Spanking, Flogging, & More with Ignacio
TONIGHT at 8-10pm FREE!

Learn the finer (and rougher) points of impact play. Discover the difference between sensation play and psychological spanking. We’ll cover negotiation, safety, types of hits, and the pros and cons of floggers, whips, bare hands and other instruments of discipline.

Suck it, Lick it, Love it! with Laura
Wednesday, December 12th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Our Sex Specialists share tips and tricks to get you in the spirit of giving and receiving amazing oral sex. We’ll cover anatomy basics, giving mind-blowing blow-jobs, eating pussy like a pro, lending your mouth a hand (literally) to please your partner, and the best toys to accessorize your licks, sucks, and squeezes.

Get Wet:  A G-Spotting & Female Ejaculation Intensive with Ducky Doolittle
Wednesday, December 19th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Where is your G-Spot? How do you stimulate it? How can you achieve orgasm from penetration alone? How can you squirt like a porn star? Ducky Doolittle will answer these questions and a whole lot more as she explains the beauty of (and busts the myths about) the female body, G-Spotting and female ejaculation. It’s an orgasm intensive!

Dec 03 2012

Sam Rosenthal, ¡Sexo, Lo Básico! & MoreDecember in LA

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by thepleasurechest

December is here, and with it, one final helping of festive events and free workshops to carry us through the end of the year.

Come do your holiday shopping, and check out classes on gay sex with Damon Holzum, an erotic reading by author Sam Rosenthal, a Spanish workshop with Fun Factory and the best down ‘n dirty sex tips with Kristen and Sarah. All this and another night of our famous Performance Anxiety comedy show await you in December!

Gay Sex for Men with Damon Holzum
Tuesday, December 4th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Come enjoy a discussion on the ins and outs of gay sex for men. Whether you’re in a long-term relationship or single and ready to mingle, this workshop will give you all the tools you need to have a hot sex life. Damon Holzum will cover a wide range of topics including topping and bottoming, oral tips and techniques, foreplay, common myths, flagging and much more. This class is open to all genders and orientations.

¡Sexo, Lo Básico! con Fun Factory
Wednesday, December 5th @ 8-10pm FREE!

De acuerdo con nuestra misión de relacionarnos con nuestra comunidad, The Pleasure Chest ha reconocido la necesidad de educacíon multilingüe. ¡Estamos felices de anunciar nuestra primera clase en Español!: ¡Sexo, Lo Básico! Uno de nuestros especialistas, hablará sobre el placer de usar juguetes eróticos. Temas incluyen: condones, diferente tipos de lubricantes, vibradores para principiante o avanzados, juguetes para parejas, limpieza,sexo seguro y también sugerencias y tips: ¡muy calientes!

Rye: An Erotic Reading with Sam Rosenthal
Wednesday, December 10th @ 8-9:30pm FREE! 

Join us for a special evening with Sam Rosenthal reading from his erotic novel, Rye. A money-shot across the bow of outdated sensibilities, Rye takes a sexual somersault through the complexities of desire in a penetrating portrayal of twenty-first century intimacy. For the past 26 years, Rosenthal has been the lyricist for the popular underground rock band Black Tape For A Blue Girl. The band’s fans include filmmaker David Lynch and actress Sasha Grey. Sam’s 1996 debut novel, The First Pain to Linger, sold through its limited printing and is now a sought-after collector’s item. Come meet the author and hear passages from his latest book.

Performance Anxiety- Comedy Night at The Pleasure Chest
Tuesday, December 11th @ 8-10pm $7

Get your laughs and lube in the same place. Join us for the return of the ever popular Performance Anxiety, a comedy night hosted by Eli Olsberg and TJ Miller. For seven bucks, you can enjoy free beer, 15% off your purchases and live performances by some of the best comics working today. Guests TBA.

Down and Dirty: Sex for the Holidays with Kristen and Sarah
Wednesday, December 12th @ 8-10pm FREE

Add some spice to this holiday season with our best sex tips, tricks and games! Kristen and Sarah will discuss ways to take your play to the next level by owning your fantasies,  learning the art of the tease, and reclaiming the “dirty” side of sex. They’ll also share their secrets for G-Spotting, squirting, blow jobs, and anal play.