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Jun 03 2015

Free Workshops in Chicago

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by Chelsea

Get hot this summer with free workshops to help you bring it in bed!

Strap On, Get Off with Antoinette
Wednesday, June 3rd @ 8-10pm – FREE!

Become acquainted with the arousing possibilities of strap-on sex. Antoinette will show you that strap-on sex can be fun for everyone! Among the subjects covered will be how to choose the best harness and dildo for you, enhancing mutual satisfaction, owning your strap-on cock, and why and how strap-ons can be worn by guys too. A perfect class for beginners of any gender or orientation.

janethardy3Queering Heterosexuality: Girlfaggery, Transattraction & Other Emerging Liminal Identities with Janet Hardy
Wednesday, June 10 @ 8-10 PM, FREE

In an era when the definitions of such common words as “male,” “female,” and “sex” are unraveling, how can we still be certain about concepts like “heterosexuality” and “homosexuality”? Janet W. Hardy, author or coauthor of eleven books about alternative sexualities (including the bestselling The Ethical Slut and her recent memoir Girlfag: A Life Told In Sex and Musicals), will explore the ways in which girlfags, guydykes, transattracted people, androgynies, and others are expanding the boundaries of queerness and redefining the idea of sexual orientation.

GenderQueer Bondage: Rope for People “Between” and “Beyond” with Lee Harrington
Tuesday, June 16th @ 8-10 PM – FREE!

Ever had to struggle with how to put a crotch rope on a woman who has a little something extra? Tied up a trans man who wanted chest bondage that didn’t make him look like a girl? Perhaps you just want to explore some hot ways to tie up your lovers to make them feel androgynous and exposed? Then this class is for you. We’ll be playing with crotch ropes and strap-on harnesses, alternative forms of chest and torso bondage (to emphasize and de-emphasize curves), and exploring a few other ties that can help us or our partner(s) feel seen as whatever gender they experience. Bring two or more pieces of rope, 25-30ft in length, for hands-on fun and exploration in this class for “the rest of us”.

Lee Harrington ropeSacred Kink: The Eightfold Paths of BDSM with Lee Harrington
Wednesday June 17th @ 8-10pm – FREE!

Using BDSM and Fetishism, you may already be doing sacred kink for your own magical, emotional, spiritual and energetic work without being aware of it! Exploring the eight major routes to altered states of consciousness, we will examine how we use the Path of Ritual for earning our leathers, Path of Rhythm for cathartic flogging, Path of Flesh for sensual bondage scenes, and so much more. Come learn how to be conscious of your own sacred kink workings, how these tools have been used for thousands of years, and how to incorporate new approaches to deepen your energetic connections in the future.

Twisted Knitters Knitting Night with Sex Geekdom Chicago
Tuesday, June 23 @ 8-10pm – FREE!

Come out and play with yarn and enjoy yummy snacks and great conversation with the folks from both The Pleasure Chest and Sex Geekdom Chicago!

Anal Fisting with Sarah Sloane
Wednesday, June 24th @ 8-10pm – FREE!

Fisting may seem intense, but it’s also an amazing (and amazingly pleasurable) way to connect with a partner. In this workshop, Sarah Sloane will talk to you about the anatomy of the ass, warming it up, and of course safety considerations. She’ll cover the perfect lubes for fisting, toys to help you get there, and the emotional and spiritual side of using your whole hand.

Feb 10 2015

Top 6 Gifts for Valen-queer’s Day

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by Chelsea

Queer your love this Valentine’s Day with a little help from these saucy gifts.

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Show your partner that you’re caring and cultured by giving them a Keith Haring Tenga Egg Sleeve ($7.95) – and a promise to use it together later. Choose from three masturbation sleeves, each of which is textured with images by the iconic artist.

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Harness your passion, but not your dildo, this Valentine’s Day. Fun Factory’s ShareVibe ($129.95) is an update of their wildly popular strapless strap-on that offers more G-spot stimulation for the wearer (just insert the shorter end), a smooth, slim shaft, and a powerful rechargeable vibrator in the base.

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If you’d rather rock a strap-on, we always, always, always recommend one from SpareParts HardWear. The Joque Harness ($104.95) is very adjustable (so no need to worry about buying the right size) and is probably the sturdiest, most comfortable harness out there. Plus, it’s machine washable, so you can take turns wearing it! Their Deuce Male Harness ($134.95) is based on the same great design, with a space underneath the 0-ring to comfortably fit external genitals.

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You can still give your date something silver, even if fancy intertwining heart jewelry isn’t in the budget. The Tantus Sport Long ($47.95) is slim and sightly, with a curved, rounded end for G- or p-spot play. We love its appealing color, non-phallic shape, and the way its extra inches let you explore a greater variety of positions, whether during strap-on play or solo.

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Whether your partner is a curious beginner to butt play or an anal aficionado, they’ll love the pleasing curves and vibration of the Tantus Perfect Plug ($44.95). Modestly sized and made of body-safe silicone, this plug is truly perfect for when you want a little extra something.

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Let your partner know you’d like to go all the way this Valentine’s Day. Oxballs, our favorite creators of unique products for proud pervs, have outdone themselves with this gorgeous red silicone Fist Plug ($114.95). For adventurous players only: this silent duck is sizable.

Oct 21 2014

Fisting: a Testimonial

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by Chelsea

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There is absolutely nothing in the world that is as shockingly intimate as having your hand enclosed in someone’s body. The time it takes to work it in – finger by finger, slowly stretching, cajoling their body into opening up for you – it moves in an almost alternate reality. Hours become minutes, become hours. Your focus tightens in on just your hand – the tissue tight around your knuckles, the impossible heat of their body like a small sun around your fist. Your world is their breath, their heartbeat pounding against the tip of your fingers. They breathe at that one ripe, right moment, and your hand finds its way a millimeter further into them. And the tiny movements of your hand feel like earthquakes to your lover; the flex of your thumb rocks against their spots and tremors shake through their body. Their hand reaches towards you, trying to close the circuit, wrapping around your wrist. And then you’re there – your hand trapped by every shudder and convulsion, your ears ringing with their screams and moans, your heart racing with theirs, and what started out as a slow exploration becomes a watershed moment between two people who are open and intimate and bound together by nothing more than a single hand.

This guest post was written by Sarah Sloane

Oct 21 2014

Disappointingly Realistic Erotica:
Fisting Trysts

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by Chelsea

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Oscar let out a shuddering breath as he felt Amanda’s knuckles graze his taint. Gripping the already rumpled sheet, he waited for the gentle touch of his girlfriend’s soft fingertip on his anus. He almost couldn’t believe it – she’d not only agreed to his ultimate fantasy, but she’d jumped at the chance to make him feel amazing. He felt silly that he’d been so nervous to tell her what he wanted.

Oh wow. She was getting creative, using her lubed-up knuckles to massage his asshole. Oscar groaned, reveling in the pressure, moving his hips to grind against Amanda’s hand.

“Honey?” Amanda paused, glancing up at him, her brow furrowed.

“What’s up?”

“I don’t thing this is going to work.” Amanda held up her balled fist, gazing sadly at it.

Realization dawned.

“Oh love,” Oscar laughed. “Let’s talk about what ‘fisting’ means.”

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“Oh yes, yes, oh god, now curl your fingers–NAILS NAILS STOP OW FUCK”

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“So this is what it’s like to fuck in zero gravity,” Xorgana giggled, lightly pinching one of Svarne’s dark blue forenipples.

“So this is what it’s like to fuck a human,” Svarne replied, snapping a glove onto her smallest hand and running it through a large patch of free-floating lube that had spilled from the bottle.

Xorgana relaxed into the weightlessness as Svarne probed her with many-jointed fingers. This wasn’t what she had imagined when she had dreamed of exploring the galaxy: it was so much better. Gradually, though, she became aware of a growing discomfort.

“Wait,”she said warily, “That’s not a latex glove, is it?”

“Yeah, baby,” Svarne replied absently, four of her fingers still undulating inside of Xorgana.

“I told you I was allergic!” Xorgana exclaimed, her eyes beginning to well with all-too-human tears. “How are we supposed to make this work if you don’t listen to me?”

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I can’t believe I’m fisting the high school quarterback. Rex’s ass is propped up on a pillow for better access, and his strong, hairy hand works his own thick cock. His full lips form inarticulate sounds that I’m pretty sure are supposed to be pleas.

“What’s that, big boy?”

“Please don’t stop.”

“Oh no?” I slow my fist’s already slight motion almost to a standstill. “Even after what you called me at tryouts? I don’t know if you deserve to feel this good.”

“Please, Bruce.”

“Is that my name? I thought it was Little Bitch.”

Rex whimpers helplessly. Then, his ass erupts in a massive, wet fart that reverberates around my hand.

***

“Silent duck?!?” Amanda shrieked with delight. It took her a full minute to get the giggle fit under control.

***

Felicia lay languidly in her lover’s arms, spent from a night of passion. She felt like a flower, newly bloomed. She felt all of the womynly power of Mother Earth rising from the ground to greet her. She felt like spring. She had felt her lover’s whole hand inside her, making love to her most secret depths, and she had been whole. Holding fast to the knowledge that she had truly been reborn that night, Felicia drifted off to sleep.

She woke in the night needing to pee, hurried to the bathroom, and soon returned to bed.

Then she needed to pee again.

Then she needed to pee again.

Felicia was a womyn with a UTI.

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Always pee after getting vaginally fisted, y’all! UTIs are no fun. Also, check out previous installments of Disappointingly Realistic Erotica here

Feb 18 2014

Sarah Sloane on Fisting

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by thepleasurechest

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Hey guys! Sarah Sloane, our Chicago store manager, was quoted in an excellent article about fisting from Ms. Fit.

“Stay away from the concept that it has to be a goal. A large part of the joy is getting there, even if you never arrive,” she advises, and goes on to offer a few practical tips for the fisting-curious. We recommend checking out the article and, if it piques your interest, reviewing the fisting primer on our how-to blog.

Sep 24 2013

Master Fister: Damon Holzum at Gloryhole

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by thepleasurechest

Damon Holzum, L.A.’s most delightful resource for information about anal fisting, will be performing at Gloryhole. You don’t want to  miss him.

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Damon Holzum has been a sex educator and sexpert for over 10 years, encouraging a sex-positive environment while acknowledging safer-sex ideologies. He’s a California state certified HIV counselor and is well on his way to a Masters in Social Work.  Whatever you’re into, he encourages exploration with consent, communication, and capacity.

Damon’s classes include All About the Butt, Advanced Anal Play, Alternative Sexual Practices, and Sex for Gay Men, and he has standing teaching engagements all over Los Angeles, including here at The Pleasure Chest. He has been a featured writer in Instigator Magazine and is a frequent contributor to Moushumi Ghose’s web series, The Sex Talk.  His philosophy focuses on the de-stigmatization of all things sex and embracing your inner desires, whatever they may be.  “And remember, always f*ck with education.”

You can catch Damon Holzum in the gloryhole on the night of the party.

To RSVP to Gloryhole, email gloryhole@thepleasurechest.com.

Jul 30 2013

Fisting Public Art Prank In Detroit

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by thepleasurechest

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Detroit filed for bankruptcy almost two weeks ago, inspiring local artist Jerry Vile to deliver a little comic relief. Witness “Vessel of Hope,” in which the prankster placed an enormous can of Crisco next to the city’s iconic Joe Louis Fist Statue. The clueless folks at Detroit’s Fox 2 reported that Vile hopes his work “may in someway ease the pain of having the Detroit bankruptcy shoved into our faces.” Well played, Mr. Vile.

If you’d like to learn more about fisting, come check out our free workshop, Advanced Anal Play on August 28th, with Damon Holzum in Los Angeles and Sarah Sloane in Chicago.

h/t Jalopnik

 

 

Feb 28 2013

Free Workshops for All Experience LevelsMarch in Los Angeles

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by thepleasurechest

Our workshops just keep getting more popular. We had huge turnouts in February as curious folks came to learn about everything from G-Spots to threesomes. This month, we’ve got a little something for everybody, with introductory classes on anal sex and bondage and advanced workshops on blowjobs and “extreme sex.” No matter what your gender, orientation or experience level, there’s a class for you in March. Join us!

Butt Sex Basics with Alicia Cybulski
Wednesday, March 6th @ 8-10pm FREE!

In this workshop, no topic on taking it up the ass is taboo. Learn why a warm-up is important before anal exercise, why lube is your butt’s BFF, and how building comfort and trust with your partner can dispel common concerns such as pain or cleanliness. We’ll show you our favorite toys, how to use them solo or with a partner, cover the perks of having a prostate, anal G-Spot stimulation, and toy and partner safety.

Performance Anxiety- Comedy Night at The Pleasure Chest
Tuesday, March 12h @ 8-10pm $7

Get your laughs and lube in the same place. Join us for the return of the ever popular Performance Anxiety, a comedy night hosted by Eli Olsberg. For seven bucks, you can enjoy free beer, 15% off your purchases and live performances by some of the best comics working today. This show’s guests include  Kurt BraunohlerTJ MillerDan LevyTommy JohnaginAparna NancherlaJared LoganKara Klenk and Rob O’ Reilly.

Head of the Class: Blowjobs 201 with Sex Nerd Sandra
Wednesday, March 13th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Want to give an even better blowjob? Let our Sex Specialist show you some new tricks and techniques. Learn how to find the perfect grip and mouth movement. Discover how to use your whole body to go the distance. Find new ways to tailor your blowjob to your specific partner. This class is for anyone who feels confident in giving head, but wants to take their skills to the next level.

Basic Bondage & Sensation Play with Mary
Wednesday, March 20th @ 8-10pm FREE!

Learn the essentials of bedroom bondage and sensation play. Our kink connoisseurs will show you the ropes, including how to communicate and negotiate for what you want. You’ll discover quick and easy bondage techniques and how to use blindfolds, feathers, massage candles and other items to play with your partner’s sensations. People of all experience levels and orientations welcome.

Performance Anxiety- Comedy Night at The Pleasure Chest
Tuesday, March 26th @ 8-10pm $7

Get your laughs and lube in the same place. Join us for the return of the ever popular Performance Anxiety, a comedy night hosted by Eli Olsberg. For seven bucks, you can enjoy free beer, 15% off your purchases and live performances by some of the best comics working today. Guests TBA.

Extreme Sex with Damon Holzum
Wednesday, March 27th @ 8-10-pm FREE!

Do you want to discover and push the boundaries of your sexual exploration? Damon will guide you through the outer edges of erotic experience, including fisting, watersports, sounding and “dirty play.” This judgment-free class will focus on finding partners, safer sex practices, emotional safety and practical advice for a wide range of edgy fetishes.

Oct 19 2012

This Sunday is Fisting Day!

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by thepleasurechest

Join us this Sunday, October 21st in solemn observance of Fisting Day!

What’s Fisting Day, you ask? It’s a global event created by queer porn icons Jiz Lee and Courtney Trouble to promote acceptance of vaginal and anal fisting. As they explain on the official Tumblr:

“Fisting Day began not only as a celebration, but a call for awareness – this sex act is banned and censored in most forms of adult entertainment, and that fear is reflected outside of the sex industry as well. We believe that sex-positive education, exposure, information, and discussion is an easy cure for this fist-phobia!”

We totally support this worthy goal, and want to lend a helping hand. To support Fisting Day, we’ll be offering 20% off your entire purchase on Sunday, October 21st.

If you’re coming into one our retail stores, simply mention “Fisting Day” to get 20% off your purchase. If ordering online, type fistingday into the coupon # box during checkout.

Need some pointers? Here’s our handy guide.

A Hand in the Bush is the ultimate, um, “handbook” on the fine art of vaginal fisting. It’s filled with practical information on how to get started. And it’s been approved by three fisting-friendly physicians.

The Oxballs Fist Plug is super realistic and made of soft, body-safe silicone. It’s got a nice wide base that’ll keep it snug in your butt.

When only a famous fist will do, try Belladonna’s Bitch Fist. This unique dildo is made from an exact replica of porn star Belladonna’s forearm and fist.

Whether you’re a first timer or an old hand, it’s a good rule of the thumb to use plenty of lube. And J-Lube is hands down the best lube for anal fisting. Simply mix a little bit of water with the J-Lube powder for a slippery good time. One bottle lasts a long, long, time.

If you plan on playing safe, we strongly recommend a pair of gloves. Unless you’re into medical play (and there’s nothing wrong with that), we recommend these fashionable black latex gloves.

If you want to watch vaginal fisting, we highly recommend the Crash Pad series, especially the kinky installment called “Rope Burn.”

Speaking of Crash Pad, they’ve got a great tutorial on their blog. Check out “Vaginal Fisting Basics”.