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How to Use a Vibe with Your Partner

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by thepleasurechest

Using a vibrator with your partner for the first time can be intimidating, that’s for sure, but building that kind of intimacy is totally rewarding. Your reward can be not only more orgasms, but also a sense of fun and openness to please one another sexually. But seriously, more orgasms.

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Here are some common questions and concerns that may come up when you’re looking to add a buzz to the bedroom (or somewhere more scandalous, if you want):

What will my partner think of me if I grab desperately for the Hitachi Magic Wand under my bed 20 minutes into a vigorous round of thrusting?

We’re not gonna lie, this could be startling for your lover, partly because they might think you’re about to attack them with a baseball bat, but mostly because the best time to talk about sex toys is generally before you start having sex. A surprising number of people are unfamiliar with the idea of using vibrators during partner sex, and also the fact that most female bodies do need some form of clitoral vibration to orgasm. Well before the deed begins, it helps to sit your partner down and let them in on this information, along with some personal encouragement and motivation like “I love how you fuck me and I want to come extra hard for you” or “Later, I can show you how good this feels on your balls while I suck you off.” After all, even the most secure among us hates to feel left out of the action.

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Our Pick: Enjoy clitoral stimulation during penetration with Eva, the first hands-free, strap-free, unobtrusive clitoral vibrator. This silicone vibe features two flexible wings that tuck comfortably under your labia majora for an intense clitoral stimulation without lifting a finger.

 

Speaking of vibrators the size of sports equipment, are there any vibes you might recommend for couples just starting out with toys or that are specifically designed for partner use?

We happen to know plenty of couples who use and really enjoy the strongest, loudest, most unwieldy vibes around, but we do have recommendations for those just starting out, and there are more and more vibes being made that are designed specifically for partner sex. You can start off small with a classic bullet vibe and work your way up to more powerful toys! 20625_big

Our Pick: The We-Vibe Sync is the latest in We-Vibe’s iconic line of dual-stimulation vibrators that can actually be worn during sex! One end of the vibe hugs the clit while the other goes inside the vagina, resting on the g-spot and allowing enough room for a partner to penetrate and feel the vibrations at the same time. The Sync is adjustable and app-compatible for hands-free fun.

 

My guy is interested in trying a cock ring, but will that do anything for me?

Cock rings are lots of fun to play with, plus they help maintain harder, longer, and more sensitive erections by trapping blood flow in the penis. Vibrating cock rings are great for couples, because they provide vibrations right to the vulva…or you can swing them around and vibrate his balls.

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Our Pick: We’re big fans of the Je Joue Mioa strong stretchy silicone cock ring with a powerfully rumbly motor. The Mio is waterproof, so you can take it into the tub for sexy times!

 

What if my partner and I want to play in public? 

For some folks, the ultimate foreplay is the element of surprise and/or control. Discreet toys like vibrating panties or other wearable remote control vibes can spice up any date. We especially enjoy app-compatible vibes: pair your vibe with your smart phone and drive your partner crazy.

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Our Pick: Enjoy incognito G-Spot stimulation with the PicoBong Remoji Diver . This egg-shaped vibe features multiple vibration speeds and patterns via the free Remoji app, including a “beat mode” that vibes along to music!

 

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