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Kiss My Ass: Rimming & Analingus

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by thepleasurechest

Let’s face it. Butts are sexy. Buttholes are sexy. Anal sex is all the rage, but few people will dare explore or discuss the fine art of analingus. And that’s a damn shame, because a well-executed rimjob is a thing of joy. Let’s dive in together.

Why rim?

The answer is simple. The anus is full of nerves just waiting to be stimulated. It likes to be kissed, just as much as the rest of your body. If you already enjoy putting a finger, a cock or a dildo in your bum, then you can only imagine the divine pleasure of an ardent rimjob. In fact, rimming is great for anal sex beginners. It can be an excellent way to get your partner in the mood for more advanced anal play. It helps awaken sensitivity and literally lubes them up. You can learn more about analingus in the DVD Tristan Taormino’s Expert Guide to Anal Sex. Her Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women also makes great bathtub reading. Oh yeah, about bathing…

Wash It!

If you’re going to ask someone to stick their tongue in your butt, show them the courtesy of making it nice and clean for them. Often, a bath is all you need, and a shared bath before anal fun makes for great foreplay, while helping both partners to relax.

If you’d prefer to just dive in, you should keep some clean wipes handy. Pjur Med Wipes are absorbent and alcohol-free, and they kill most bacteria, fungi and viruses. They’re ideal for quick and easy bedside hygiene.

Although it’s not really necessary, some people prefer to do a deeper cleaning. In this case, you may want to try an anal douche or an enema. Enemas can be enjoyable, whether the goal is hygiene, sensation or as part of a medical play scene. The Colt Anal Douche has a ribbed nozzle designed to make cleaning your butt more fun. For a one-time use, you can also use a Fleet Saline Enema. Again, enemas and douches can be fun on their own terms, but they’re not at all necessary to enjoying safe analingus.

Dam It!

It’s a simple fact that the butt harbors bacteria. If you want to play as safely as possible, you can always dam it! A Dental Dam is a simple latex barrier, used during anal sex. It will allow you to enjoy kissing and tonguing your partner’s butt, while lowering your chances of encountering nasty bugs. Another alternative is a sheet of cling film (Saran Wrap has so many bedroom uses! Make sure to use the non-microwaveable variety.) Spread a thin sheet along your partner’s cheeks and crack, put a dollop of lube on the inside, and dive in.

Tease It!

If you or your partner are new to analingus, you may want to build up to the most intimate kiss. Try teasing them with your finger, or kissing your way along their buttcheeks. As with any kind of sex, it’s better to warm up before penetration. If your partner is new to the sensation, try turning up the heat by using your hands on their genitals. If your partner is male-bodied, play with his cock, while getting him used to the feeling of your tongue near his butt. If your partner is female-bodied, massage her clit, or pleasure her G-Spot with your finger.

Kiss It!

When your partner is relaxed and aroused, use your lips like you would on any other part of your partner’s body. Lick along the crack of their ass. Plant small kisses along their cheeks. Blow on their butthole. Stick your tongue where the sun don’t shine. Be sure to come up for air and check in with your partner. If you plan to make rimming a regular part of your sexual diet, you wanna make sure you get the recipe just right!

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