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Role Play for the Nervous Beginner

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by thepleasurechest

role play

From what we’ve heard around the store, a lot of people are afraid of role play because they don’t want to feel silly. We think that’s a shame. After all, role play is a great way to expand your sexual palate.

Role play lets you give yourself permission to try things that are out of character, for the simple reason that you are playing a different character. Nervous that your girlfriend will laugh at you when you tell her to get on her knees and beg? Well, you’re not talking to your girlfriend; you’re talking to Sexy Werewolf. And if Sexy Werewolf laughs at you? It’s okay, she’s really laughing at Sexy Mad Scientist.

Also, she’s really laughing with you. You’re probably also laughing, because role play is almost inherently giggly, at least at first. You’re probably both feeling a little self-conscious, and laughter is a common defense when you’re nervous. Plus, role play is silly. You’re pretending to be other people, and those people are usually sexpots. Embrace the camp.

Okay, so you’re sold on the idea of role play. Where do you start?

role playFirst, choose your scenario. Try drawing from:

– Fantasies you’ve had: Do you like the idea of being tied down and tortured? Try a military interrogation scene. Of being pampered with hot baths and bon bons by a shirtless hottie? Let’s play (some variation of) master and servant.

– Movies and books: This definitely, definitely includes porn and erotica, but it’s not limited to it. Do you find yourself spacing out to explicit Holmes/Watson fantasies? Don’t dream it – be it.

– Real life wish-fulfillment: You didn’t get laid on prom night, but you will tonight.

Got a scenario in mind? Time to get your costumes and props in order!

role play 4Strictly speaking, costumes and props aren’t necessary, but they’re so much fun! Besides, it’s a lot easier to let yourself behave like Sexua, Ruthless Purveyor of Martian Pleasures, when you’re wearing latex opera gloves than when you’re wearing pajamas.

– Try getting dressy. You don’t have to track down a military uniform or invest in an ermine robe. Often, cocktail attire lifts you far enough out of the daily grind that it gets the job done.

– Add some accessories. Rhinestone pasties or a flattering collar will make all the difference.

– Incorporate your toys. A beloved flogger becomes that much more exciting when wielded by a cross schoolmistress, a Wartenberg pinwheel is as useful for playing doctor as for playing inquisitor, and you know that James Bond would have fun letting the Bond Girl decide which dildo he should strap on for her.

Alright, your supplies are in order. Now:

– Decide how you’re going to start. Will one of you run outside and ring the doorbell? Will it start immediately as soon as you both get home? Will you be building up to it all day over text and email?

– Decide who’s going to initiate sex. This sounds a little clinical, but trust us. Hot scenes can fizzle out if each of you is waiting for the other to make sex happen.

Get it? Good. Go get dressed up and have hot wizard sex.

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1 Comment

  • mike ahuja

    ive never really gone full force into role playing but we all tend to role play on some levels differently with different ppl in day to day life….

    ReplyDecember 14, 2015 at 7:33 pm

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