BDSM 27 posts

Want to get a grasp on some bondage basics? Learn the ropes in this comprehensive bondage for beginners blog written by NY Pleasure Chest Supervisor and Sex Educator Kassandra! A Beginner's Guide to Bondage will teach you what bondage is, methods of bondage, how to practice safely as well as beginner bondage product recommendations and [...]

This comprehensive beginner's guide details the impact play kink, the different types and materials of impact items, the spectrum of sensations they offer, and recommendations for every style.**If you've ever spanked someone or been spanked and enjoyed it, you've already begun your journey into the world of impact play. Spanking is typically the gateway that folks experience before diving into impact [...]

Take a solo adventure through the world of kink! Learn how to define kink on your own terms and integrate it into your lifestyle by taking the BDSM Test, embracing household "pervertables," and curating a collection of kinky wearables and sensation play items.**We happen to be in an exciting yet interesting time with the re-emergence of [...]

Talk about making an impact! This selection of kink gear (featuring the legendary Doc Johnson) has taken the BDSM world in new and exciting directions. See if one of your faves made the cut.** Pursuing a kinky lifestyle is much easier to do now than ever before. Back when the Pleasure Chest first opened in the early [...]

When does it feel good to lean into versus subvert traditional power dynamics in play? How do you know if you've tapped into your authentic erotic voice. Learn all about BDSM from Negotiation to Impact.**wrkshp-kink-d-21.jpg**"How do I want to embody my Dominance or my submission?"The politics of kink, and the interplay of our personal identities [...]

Curious about dirty talk? Here are some dirty talk tips from guest blogger and Sex Specialist Carly S... **spring-workshop-f-for-f-a-1.jpg**Curious about dirty talk? Here are some dirty talk tips from guest blogger and Sex Specialist Carly S. to make hot sex even hotter!First things first.Anyone who tries something new or unfamiliar is nervous, so step one is [...]

Surprises can be stone cold delightful, like free ice cream or finding a forgotten $20 in your jeans. But there's one place where surprises can be disastrous: the bedroom. Total surprises in bed are generally frowned upon, at least when it comes to a new and/or exotic sexual activities. Want butt sex? Negotiate. Want to be tied [...]

BDSM is the commonly used catchall term for bondage, discipline, submission, dominance, sadism, and masochism. It can include role-playing with dominant and submissive roles, restraints, sensation play (exploring with ice cubes or hot wax, or deprivation with gags or blindfolds), impact play (such as spanking or flogging), and much more.**booty-spank.jpg**You've probably seen some form of [...]

A sound is a medical instrument designed to stretch or enlarge the urethra. Sounds were originally developed to identify obstructions...**sound.jpg**A sound is a medical instrument designed to stretch or enlarge the urethra. Sounds were originally developed to identify obstructions in the urethra, and to stretch the passage, allowing the flow of urine and semen. This [...]

Spanking has been popular with a huge range of folks, from the kinkiest & most experienced BDSM players to "vanilla" couples who are looking to spice things up in the bedroom. **booty-spank.jpg**Spanking has been popular with a huge range of folks, from the kinkiest & most experienced BDSM players to "vanilla" couples who are looking to [...]

We encourage sexual adventure, and we've been delighted to see how many people have felt inspired to try something new after seeing Fifty Shades of Grey. For those of you who can't wait to start tying each other up, just like in the movie, we'd like to offer some alternative options that are much safer [...]

Despite what it might sound like (and despite what you may have seen in a certain popular book-turned-movie), BDSM negotiation is not a competition...**Despite what it might sound like (and despite what you may have seen in a certain popular book-turned-movie), BDSM negotiation is not a competition in which two partners use fancy legal jargon [...]