The Pleasure of the Prostate

For many years, the idea of prostate massage was synonymous in most people’s
minds with one thing…. a trip to the urologist. But over the last 16 years the
concept of recreational prostate massage has attracted a great deal of attention.
This increase in popularity is arguably traceable to the advent of the Aneros
prostate massager in 2002, a hands-free, male-G spot (prostate) stimulator that is
powered by one’s own contractions. While erotic prostate massage dates back
millennia, to the Eastern traditions of Tantra and the Tao, the development of a
device that allowed an individual to explore self-administered prostate massage in
the privacy of their own home was a game changer.

Aneros line of prostate massagers

Ironically it was Aneros’ development as a health product back in the 90’s that
would ultimately lead to its success as a sexual device. Few people today are
aware that prostate massage was once the gold standard for the treatment of
prostatitis and the symptoms of BPH (enlargement of the prostate). With the
appearance of antibiotics and other medications it fell into relative obscurity for a
time. But with the emergence of holistic and alternative medicine in the 80’s and
90’s prostate massage made a comeback with some physicians giving it a shot as
well. The original hands-free prostate massager was created in collaboration with
a Japanese urologist and patented in the United States by High Island Health in 1996.

The old way.	The Aneros Way.	Contract for Pleasure

For the next several years the product sold well, garnering rave reviews and
testimonials from satisfied users. At the same time an increasing number of these
people began contacting the company about a peculiar “side-effect”. Namely, an
intense prostate-centered, whole-body orgasm as a result of using the product.
Over time so many of these reports came streaming in, the company realized the
need to start marketing the product as erotic device as well. With that the
ANEROS brand was born.

For those who are experienced with anal play, prostate massage may be easily
integrated into solo or couples sessions. After all, it’s a small step (around 3
inches) from the anal opening to the posterior surface of the gland. Aficionados of
anal fun may already be vaguely familiar with prostate sensations even from the
lesser, more tangential contact of a vibrator or a dildo. Prostate massage ups the
game by providing a more focused stimulation of the gland which houses a bundle
of nerves known as the prostatic plexus. The pudendal nerve, (the nerve that
carries sensation from the penis and the skin around the anus and perineum) is one
of a number of nerves in this bundle. This explains why prostate massage
recipients often report feeling sensations all over the pelvic region. It’s no wonder
that the prostate was seen as a center of sexual vitality and inner energy and
regarded in sacred terms in Tantric and Taoist teachings.

Before exploring prostate massage, one should be mindful of several things. To
start with, the prostate is not a penis, and while that might seem self-evident, many
people make the mistake of approaching the practice in a similar way to penile
stimulation. While harder, faster, longer may work for a hand job, it is not the case
with prostate massage. The truth is, the prostate is more responsive to stimulation
in the subtle to moderate range. And while slightly more elevated intensities can be
pleasant, they shouldn’t be maintained for a long period of time as the prostate can
be easily desensitized. Beyond that it should be said that vigorous, sustained, high
intensity manipulation of the prostate can be harmful, and should be avoided!

Prostate massage techniques fall into two groups; manual prostate massage and
device assisted prostate massage. Manual prostate massage (massage by hand)
requires the assistance of a partner or body worker. While it is possible to do this
on your own, it’s not practical as it’s difficult to position oneself for proper access.
And even when penetration is achieved, say by someone on their side with long
thumbs…it’s difficult to maintain contact for very long. In most cases manual
prostate massage will include the assistance of another.

To begin, all the usual suggestions regarding anal play apply here as well. Giver should have clean hands with trimmed, filed, finger nails to avoid snags. (Gloves are often preferred for
convenience and sanitary purposes). For the sake of comfort and mobility use a
good quality personal lubricant. Have the receiver laying on his back with legs
spread and knees slightly bent. Apply lubricant to the glove and massage and
lubricate the anus externally. Spending a minute or two on this step facilitates
penetration and adds to the sensual nature of the experience. Slowly introduce a
fingertip, working it in and out, with progressively deeper strokes.

Know your lube

Apply additional lubrication as needed. Depending on the comfort and experience of the
receiver you may want to use two or more fingers. Doing so provides additional
stimulation and can lessen fatigue for the giver. Encourage the receiver to relax
and breathe deeply. Massage the anal canal and inner sphincter. Curl a finger
upward while moving inward 2 or 3 inches and you will engage a small (larger in
older men) bump. This is the prostate. The surface should feel smooth and
rounded. Run your finger(s) along the perimeter, then explore the entire surface
area with gentle sweeping strokes. Now change up, moving the finger(s) in and
out using the same sweeping technique when engaging the prostate. Experiment
with different degrees of pressure, paying attention to the responses of the receiver.
Prostate massage can be used in conjunction penile stimulation for an explosive
ejaculation or as an end in itself with a prostate-centered whole-body orgasm.
Experiment and explore.

Device assisted prostate massage is more straightforward, but it has some
limitations you should be aware of. First, most dildos and vibrators are relatively
straight, so it’s difficult to maneuver them in order to reach the prostate directly.
G-spot dildos /vibrators are normally angled, so they can engage the prostate.
However, bear in mind that the physics of an instrument with a straight shaft and a
bent end is essentially that of a lever arm. What this means is a great deal of
force can be transmitted to the tip, with a minimal amount of energy from the
outside, so be very careful with the amount of pressure used with these kinds of
instruments.

If you are using a vibrator always keep in mind the dual nature of
vibration….it can be stimulating and desensitizing at the same time (remember,
vibrators are also used for pain management). This becomes an issue with prostate
play because the prostate is desensitized by stronger stimulation. If one is not
careful, it’s possible to numb the receiver’s prostate, masking the amount of true
pressure that is being brought to bear. If you must use vibration, make sure that the
mode is dynamic (constantly changing) using slow inward strokes of the device so
as to avoid sensory overload.

Aneros products fall into the device assisted prostate massage category. They are
unique in that they are configured in accordance with male anatomy and designed
to be driven by ones anal contractions only. As a result, they reach the right places
automatically delivering the correct amount of pressure, so it’s not possible to hurt
oneself. Aneros products stimulate and massage 4 erogenous zones (the perineum,
the anus, the Kundalini spot (the area behind the anus) and the prostate),
simultaneously.

Some fans have used them as manually driven prostate massagers
as well. This is not recommended by Aneros since the products are already tuned
to deliver focused prostate massage with a minimal amount of force. If driven by
hand, it should be done slowly and gently, avoiding any vigorous movements.
Once fully inserted, it’s possible to pivot/rock the base right and left. This
translates into a skating motion of the tip internally on the surface of the prostate.

Progasm Line	Trident Line	Aneros Vice

Prostate massage can add a new dimension of intimacy to any relationship and
allow an individual to discover a different dimension of sexual fulfilment. For best
results and safety, one should avoid the consumption of drugs and alcohol during
these sessions with giver and receiver maintaining good communication at all
times. Curious? See more Aneros products here!

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