THIS ENTRY WAS POSTED ON January 17, 2017 BY THEPLEASURECHEST.
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How do you begin a blow job?
The best BJs begin with the brain. Both of you should be turned on for a good BJ. Build up the tension with dirty talk. Get your mouth warmed up with a hot make out session.
How should you incorporate using your hands?
Use your hands to add friction. Hold the base of his cock to control the pace of the action. Use a finger to stimulate his perineum. Or, if you’ve negotiated it, slip a lubricated finger or two in his ass, to stimulate his prostate directly.
What about the balls?
Most guys like their balls being cupped during a blowjob. You can also use a finger or two to put pressure on the perineum (the taint) for an external prostate massage. If you press on this, you can really enhance a man’s orgasm.
Do you have to deep throat?
No, it’s not necessary. A lot of people want to learn how to deep throat, and it can be an amazing feeling for both partners. The secret is to position yourself to follow the natural curve of his cock, with the natural curve of your throat. Try it first with him on his back and you on your side. Keep your hand on the base of his cock to go at your own pace. Swallow when you feel like you have reached your limit which will help to go further and widen your throat. Don’t deep throat with a full stomach. You can also simulate the sensation of deep throat by using a masturbation sleeve to stroke his shaft while sucking on the head of the penis.
Does it matter if you spit or swallow?
It’s up to you, but always negotiate this ahead of time. If you’re not fluid-bonded with a partner, use a condom.
What are some reasons that men can’t get hard, and should you push it if it’s not working?
There can be many reasons – erectile dysfunction, using alcohol and drugs, stress or exhaustion. Sometimes, even if he’s in the mood, his penis isn’t. Never push. Move on to other things. Don’t make a big deal about it.
What’s the single best tip for giving great head?
The best BJs are really great hand jobs. Most guys need more friction than you can create with your mouth, so a great blowjob is often a combination of using your hand to tug on the penis while adding sensation and suction with your mouth.
