How to Introduce a Sex Toy

There can often be a lot of sensitivity around suggesting adding a sex toy into your play. I’m pretty sure we’ve all vibed out or had some self-stim at some point, but introducing a new toy to your partner play can sometimes be a touchy subject. Or maybe you and your partner are at the point where you want to advance and broaden your play. Either way, we’ll touch on how to introduce a sex toy and also brush up on how to do it safely.

Say Hello to My Little Friend.

Or big…whatever floats your boat. Either way, communication is key when introducing a new toy. Whether you’re interested in electro play or having fantasies about that cute little vibe, it’s probably best to start with a convo about what each of your desires are. You can even incorporate talking about it into your foreplay. In most cases, it’s best to approach with a positive, open mind. Remember, sexuality can be an extremely sensitive topic for some of us, so navigate with caution and care. If someone is into something that you aren’t, respect their desires and don’t shut them down with shame.

Whether you’ve hit a plateau with your partner or just want to expand your play, the bottom line is sex toys can be a great tool in helping spice things up, achieve orgasm, and even in becoming multi-orgasmic. Below are some suggestions and links to our fave couples toys, resources on how to use them, and practices for playing it safe.

Couples Toys

The good news is, there are many products on the market geared towards couple’s play, and some of our fave couple’s toys incorporate pleasure for both giver and receiver. In addition to our Curated Couples Kits, we really like the We-Vibe Unite and Sync which feature hands-free, remote-controlled vibration satisfaction for both partners. Join the band with the Fun Factory Amorino which wraps around the entire vulva, transmitting rumbling vibration to the inner labia and often-neglected clitoral legs. We also adore the Je Joue Mio, a multi-rhythmic vibrator of adjustable intensities that fits snugly over a penis or dildo and can be used to enhance both solo and partner play. See our full feature on our fave Couple’s Toys here!

We-Vibe Sync, Fun Factory Amorino and Je Joue Mio.

But How do I use this thing?

We offer free weekly PleasurEd classes taught by our in-house Sex Specialists and special guest educators to further educate folks on various pleasure topics as well as how to (safely) incorporate certain toys. You can always refer to our events page for upcoming free workshops offered at one of our locations. Our Customer Assistants are also all highly trained and educated about all of our products and their purposes. Don't be afraid to ask! Need to see it to believe it? We also offer expert testimonials from our certified and trained staff on various products on PCTV. Here's one from our Sex Specialist Kate on Best Couples Vibrators!

Sex Toy Safety

There are many different types of toys that require their own specific care. From Silicone to Cyberskin, non-porous to porous, here is a quick compare list of the most popular sex toy materials and how to keep them clean: https://thepleasurechest.com/blog/howto/sex-toy-materials-care-cleaning/

Next up, how to (safely and consensually) kink up your sex!