THIS ENTRY WAS POSTED ON July 1, 2020 BY THEPLEASURECHEST.
Anal sex is all the rage, but few people will dare explore or discuss the fine art of analingus. And that’s a damn shame, because a well-executed rim job is a thing of joy. Ready to explore the world of ass-eating? Let’s dive in together.
Why rim?
The answer is simple: the anus is full of nerves just waiting to be stimulated. In fact, the anus has the 2nd highest concentration of nerves in women (first is the clit) and the highest in men! It likes to be kissed, just as much as the rest of your body. Rimming is great for anal sex beginners, and it can also be an excellent way to get your partner in the mood for more advanced anal play. Rimming helps awaken sensitivity and increase arousal.
Wash It!
If you’re going to ask someone to stick their tongue in your butt, show them the courtesy of making it nice and clean for them. Often, a shower is all you need, and a shared bath before getting busy makes for great foreplay!
If you’d prefer to just dive in, you should keep some clean wipes handy. Aneros Wipes are soothing, cleansing towelettes that let you clean up in a hurry. Skin-safe and toy-safe. They’re ideal for quick and easy bedside hygiene.
Although it’s not really necessary, some people prefer to do a deeper cleaning. In this case, you may want to try an anal douche or an enema. The Colt Anal Douche has a ribbed nozzle designed to make cleaning your butt more fun. Again, enemas and douches can be fun on their own terms, but they’re not at all necessary to enjoying safe analingus.
Dam It!
It’s a simple fact that the butt harbors bacteria. If you want to play as safely as possible, you can always dam it! A Dental Dam is a simple latex barrier, used during anal or oral sex. It will allow you to enjoy kissing and tonguing your partner’s butt, while lowering your chances of encountering nasty bugs. Another alternative is a sheet of cling film (Saran Wrap has so many bedroom uses! Make sure to use the non-microwaveable variety.) Spread a thin sheet along your partner’s cheeks and crack, put a dollop of lube on the inside, and dive in. You can also try flavored dental dams or flavored lubes for a sweet treat!
Tease It!
If you or your partner are new to analingus, you may want to build up to the most intimate kiss. Try teasing them with your finger, or kissing your way along their butt cheeks. As with any kind of sex, it’s better to warm up before penetration. If your partner is new to the sensation, try turning up the heat by using your hands on their genitals. If your partner is male-bodied, play with his cock, while getting him used to the feeling of your tongue near his butt. If your partner is female-bodied, massage her clit, or pleasure her G-Spot with your finger.
Kiss It!
When your partner is relaxed and aroused, use your lips like you would on any other part of your partner’s body. Lick along the crack of their ass. Plant small kisses along their cheeks. Blow on their butthole. Stick your tongue where the sun don’t shine. Be sure to come up for air and check in with your partner. If you plan to make rimming a regular part of your sexual diet, you wanna make sure you get the recipe just right!
Don't have a rimming buddy?
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