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"I don't necessarily believe that any one thing can or will "cure" depression; it is almost always a combination of therapy, medication, self work, journaling, community support, and yes, sex toys, that drag me out of the depths of depression."**Content warning: depression, anxiety, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder/PTSD, sexual assaultWhen I was in my second year [...]

There are a lot of societal misconceptions about neurodivergent people and how their brains work, so of course there are misconceptions about personal topics like sex and kink. Some might be thinking neurotypes don't even play a role in sex. Let's talk about it.** What is neurodivergence?Neurodivergence is an umbrella term to describe differences in cognitive functioning, most often associated with Autism [...]

May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and this installment of Ask a Dominatrix focuses on a relevant topic everyone struggles with mentally from time to time: imposter syndrome. In this blog, Robin Jennings AKA Mistress Mary shares her experience with imposter syndrome and how to successfully fight it.**May is Mental Health Awareness Month so this [...]

Are you ready to make a lasting impact on your partner(s) or playmate(s)? We've got you covered with all the expert tips on how to safely and confidently explore Impact Play! Jamie Joy, certified sex educator and kink enthusiast, is here to guide you through the basics of spanking, floggers, paddles, and canes.**Before we jump [...]

In this blog, sex coach and educator Jocelyn Silva, MSW, shares her experience with her self-pleasure journey, providing personal stories and tips on overcoming the shame we can sometimes feel about pleasure and masturbation so we can embrace our sexual essence and lead pleasure-filled lives.**Getting Over Masturbation ShameListen, I know a thing or two about masturbation shame [...]

March is Women's History Month and March 8th is International Women's Day! Along with highlighting non-binary and woman-led brands, we also wanted to draw attention to the impact these women and brands have had on the pleasure products industry in general, as well as the individual work they're all doing to make this world a better [...]

Brr, feeling cold this winter season? Looking for hot ideas to spice up your sex? This time of the year is ideal for cozying up and staying in, but that doesn't mean you have to skip out on fun and adventure when it comes to your pleasure and intimacy. Certified sex educator Jamie Joy is [...]

With Valentine's Day still lingering in the air, this month we'll focus our attention on how to get kinky with your partner and a few practical tips for creating kinky playlists and the #1 toy every Kinkster should have in their toolbox.**What music (if any) do you like to listen to or play during a [...]

Ready to upgrade your blowjob skills? Pro cock sucker Syenite shares tips on anatomy, technique, deepthroating, toys, and communication.

If you're cisgender or trans and early in your transition, navigating intimacy with transmasc folks can be daunting. Follow along with J. Carter as he dives into his own journey as a transmasc and nonbinary individual traversing cis-male gay/queer spaces in the city of Los Angeles. J offers unadulterated insight and busts harmful myths, discusses [...]

If you've ever wondered what it's like to be a Dominatrix, this monthly column will satiate your curiosity. Robin Jennings aka Mistress Mary Typhus takes us through a journey of power dynamics, navigating kinky relationships, types of BDSM play and more from her own experiences as a Pro Domme. In this first installment, Mistress Mary [...]

Did you know that the largest sex organ is the brain? Let's activate that essential part of our body to enhance pleasure during sex and intimacy through DIRTY TALK! Steph Zapata gives us all the tools we need to find our voice so clear your throat and get ready to seduce that special someone in [...]