It fits really well, feels secure, and is very femme. It’s also the perfect alternative to my leather Aslan Minx harness when I want an easier clean up that just involves throwing it in the wash. Originally, I had my heart set on the SpareParts Sasha Harness since it is the perfect blend of masc and femme for me on an aesthetic level, but sadly neither the M nor L fit me, and even though I should be a medium according to the size chart, the M was *way* too small and was glad I had the opportunity to try on and went with the L. Love, love, love this though! The peek-a-boo booty is adorable, too. It was a cute lil surprise for my partner, and they loved it!
It's super cute, and really comfy! The fit is more similar to the Tomboi than the Sasha, which is perfect for me. It's very sturdy and easy to use. Just make sure you're getting the right fit cuz there's no adjusting this one. This is my go-to harness and it's a great blend of style and substance. Bonus feature, the peephole allows for more airflow and keeps my butt from getting too sweaty for comfort.
It is constraining for me and doesn’t give me the sexual confidence I thought I would have based off of the design. Because of the way the harness fits me I feel that my performance shows that. I do like that it has multiple slots for bullets. And it can accommodate a dildo up to 2in in circumference.
As a Domme, this harness is one of my favorite toys in my box. I often wear it as part of my ensemble and it is perceived as lingerie. No one notices the hole and it's very comfortable. When needed I can easily slip in a dildo of any shape or size. I just love them. Make sure to take the time to take your measurements and follow all the sizing instructions. They will fit you perfectly.