THIS ENTRY WAS POSTED ON July 29, 2022 BY The Pleasure Chest.
July 31st is National Orgasm Day! Y’all know we celebrate orgasms EVERY day, but this day's a special occasion. Whether you’ve never had an orgasm or had enough orgasms to last a lifetime (is there ever enough though?) we have some toy collections to help you on your orgasmic journey.
First, some stats:
- Over 80% of women don’t orgasm from penetration alone
- 95% of straight men usually or always orgasm during partnered sex
- Straight men are the most likely to orgasm during a sexual encounter (95%) while straight women are the least likely (65%)
- 86% of gay women usually or always orgasm during partnered sex
- 53% of women have used a vibrator compared to 45% of men
- 77% of asexual women have masturbated and many of them have orgasms
- Orgasms provide TONS of health benefits, including: anxiety regulation, stronger pelvic floor muscles, improved immune system, pain reduction (especially re: menstrual cramping), stress reduction, better sleep and better moods!
So, what does all this mean? First, the Orgasm Gap is real: some folks aren’t having as many orgasms as others, which could be due to stigma, societal expectations, or biology (chronic pain, health disorders), etc. Second, orgasms are good for you! Not only do they give you pleasure, but they also have practical health benefits. Third, there are plenty of orgasms for the taking! If you want to have more orgasms, better orgasms or different kinds of orgasms, there are tons of fun ways to go about it.
Sexy Self-Care
If you want to dip your toe in the world of better orgasms but don’t want to go full throttle just yet, our Sexy Self-Care collection is the one for you. From air suction vibrators that mimic oral sex to stainless steel wands for targeted G-spot stimulation, these toys will ease you into a self-care session to remember!
A new must-have for any orgasm arsenal: suction toys, aka air pressure toys/air suction toys/air vibes.
Suction toys are a newer style of clitoral vibrator that offer a completely different sensation to vibration. Suction toys have motors that push and pull air in different ways; this mimics an oral tongue-like sensation. These toys have heads that surround the clitoris but don’t touch it directly. (They also work great as gender-affirming FTM strokers.) Indirect stimulation = less overstimulation = you can use the toy over and over until you’re satisfied! Multiple orgasms, anybody?
The Womanizer Classic 2 is a great high-quality intro to suction vibes and features an innovative setting called Afterglow that reverts the toy back to its lowest setting for a relaxing end to your orgasm. Again, we just have to emphasize: multiple! orgasms!
For those of you who like to throw more than one toy in the mix, a combo like the Le Wand Mini Pleasures Set should do the trick. This set comes with an even more petite version of Le Wand’s Petite Massager and a mini version of their internal stainless steel Hoop. Easily combine G-spot stimulation from the Hoop and clitoral stimulation from the Mini Wand and you’ve got yourself the potential for a blended orgasm! Bonus kit option if you like to keep your stimulation strictly external: The Dame Intimate Touch Pom Kit comes with an external vibe, aloe-based lube and an arousal serum to take your play to tingly new heights.
If you’d rather take your self-care session nice and slow, the Sundaze from Fun Factory will have you savoring every moment. The Sundaze doesn’t stop at vibration. It also thrusts, pulses, flutters, taps and strokes in varying intensities and patterns, giving you endless options and full-body sensations to explore. Use the tapping mode externally for intense pressure and vibration on the clitoris or lay back and enjoy the thrusting mode hands-free!
Mindful Masturbation
If you like your orgasms to be on the efficient side, you’ll love our Mindful Masturbation collection. These toys are designed to give you pleasure while boosting your performance! Stamina training, performance anxiety reduction and overall sexual health improvement are just a few of the things these toys target. Remember: orgasms are good for more than just pleasure!
The Bond from We-Vibe is basically the first Smart™ Ring on the market and it’s also one of the first app-controllable cock rings! You can control it like the penis equivalent of a panty vibrator via the app or a sleek remote control. The Bond comes with a Custom Fit Link so you can adjust the size to fit just right. Easily expand your orgasms and your play with a versatile toy like the Bond: use it for discreet public play, wear it during penetration to stimulate yourself and your partner or use it solo for stimulation around the balls and perineum!
The Packer Gear FTM Stroker is a stretchy gender-affirming stroker designed for trans and nonbinary folks to engage in some stroking fun! It’s made with life-like TPR material that’s realistic to the touch. This stroker has a larger opening to accommodate a wider range of sizes and it has ridges on the inside to give you additional stimulation.
Work smarter, get harder! The Optimum Advanced Auto Smart Pump is a next level penis pump that can be used as a pump and a vibrating stroker simultaneously. It allows you to customize your exercise modes and track your progress as you increase in endurance, stamina, sensation and size! Once you’re done pumping you can go analog and use the chamber as a solo stroker. This penis masturbator ticks all the boxes; it’s like having multiple devices in one convenient package! It’s efficient orgasm central.
Ultimate Orgasm Sex Toys
Sometimes we need that little bit of extra power to send us over the edge. If you’re looking to achieve the Ultimate O, going for something stronger or something totally different than what you’re used to could be just what you need. If you’re used to vibration, change up your orgasm with a suction toy. If you’re used to external stimulation, try internal. If you’re used to internal toys like G-spot vibrators or stainless steel wands, try a thruster. Even throw some anal play in the mix! Switching up the types of stimulation you’re familiar with can help you explore the sensations your body is capable of and give you even bigger, longer and stronger orgasms!
Starting off with a classic: the ever-powerful, consistently popular wand vibrator. Wands are great for all-over body massages and super intense pin-pointed stimulation. They’re a go-to for tons of folks for a reason! The larger wand heads make it easier to place the vibration exactly where you want it and allow the vibration to stay put so you barely have to move the toy around or apply any pressure like you might with smaller bullet-style vibes. The Magic Wand Rechargeable is not only our best-selling wand but it’s also our best selling vibrator in general! If you want to get in on that wand power but would rather start out small, we have plenty of options to explore including the Magic Wand Mini and the Le Wand Petite (which we offer in glittery and rainbow styles). Sidenote: another great aspect of wands is that you can put attachments on top to create a super strong G-spot or anal toy. And yes, we have them for petite wands, too!
If you need a little bit of everything, including wand power, the Romp Pleasure Kit offers a wand massager, a vibrating ring and a rechargeable suction toy all in one cute package. Experiment with edging (getting close to orgasm then stopping and starting back up again to build up an even bigger orgasm) by switching off between strong wand vibrations and clitoral suction stimulation. Place the ring over a dildo to create a vibrating toy or place it on a partner to combine penetration and vibration for a blended O. The orgasm potential with this kit is only as vast as your creative imagination!
Enjoy internal stimulation but want to take it up a notch? Try a thrusting toy like the Velvet Thruster Teddy! This toy is safe for anal play due to its wide flat base. The base also suctions so you can attach it to a sturdy surface and let the toy do all the work for you. Thrusting toys in general are great for folks with mobility issues for this reason; simply hold the toy where you want it or place it on a surface and enjoy the ride. The Stronic thrusting toys from Fun Factory are another option that can help you achieve an internal orgasm and experiment with deeper penetration.
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Want to boost your orgasm IQ? Learn all about the different kinds of orgasms your body can have with these informational, instructional books designed to guide you through one big O after another!
In conclusion: Orgasms are an infinite resource, y’all! There’s plenty to go around, and one person having a lot of orgasms doesn’t mean you can’t also have just as many. So tap into that power, go forth and get yourself that big O!
Happy National Orgasm Day!