Spareparts Tomboi Harness

$104.95
Ditch your traditional harness and slip into Tomboi. This sensual athletic brief has a strong and stretchy O-ring that fits most dildos, freeing you to enjoy strap-on sex without the straps! There's a pouch above and below the ring, designed to house a mini-vibe, and a hidden pocket in back for keeping a condom.

Features and Notes

Specs

Size
XS, S, M, L, XL, 2X, 3X, 4X, 5X,
Features
Beginner/Intro, Luxury, Vegan, Washable, Underwear Style, Adjustable O-Ring,
Material Detail
77% Nylon
Featured Brands
SpareParts Hardwear
Color
Black, Red,

Additional Notes

The breathable, machine-washable fabric makes Tomboi comfortable for daily wear under any clothing. Hand or gentle machine wash. Low temp tumble dry or lay flat to dry. Use only water or silicone lubricants.
Sizing Notes:
XS: 26" - 28"
Small: 29" - 32"
Medium: 33" - 37"
Large: 38" - 40"
XL: 41" - 44"
2X: 45" - 48"
3X: 49" - 52"

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  • 5

    Benji | Jan 4, 2023

    I love this harness, like foreal LOVE. That being said … this is also the harness that made me realize non-adjustable underwear harnesses might not be the style for me, mostly because I realized that I wouldn’t be able to adjust it for what’s most comfortable for me based off the dildo I’m strapping up with. The Tomboi is the best of the underwear styles I’ve tried though! The waistband is very sturdy, so it doesn’t sag like other underwear harness styles I’ve tried. Comfortable enough to wear under clothes.

  • 5

    Safiya Darling | Nov 5, 2020

    Awesome! Very comfortable. I love that I can throw them in the washing machine. I would not recommend to us in the dryer because it may wear down the elastic faster.

  • 5

    Lavender Menace | Dec 1, 2019

    this is your best bet. It’s a nice, comfortable material that is easy to put on and take off, and as long as your toy has a large and sturdy base, it will stay up. The interior pockets and openings means you can use a double ended dil, or add a bullet vibe to provide stimulation for the wearer as well as the receiver. Personally, I wish the O-ring was placed a little lower on the pelvis, but I know other people who have used it and wished it was placed higher, so it’s very much a personal preference issue rather than a dealbreaker.

  • 5

    ELO | Nov 5, 2019

    It's super comfy and very sturdy. I really like the brief-style aesthetically and I also love the convenience of being able to just pull it on without having to worry about adjusting straps. You DO want to make sure you're getting the right fit, because there's no adjusting this one. So this also isn't ideal for folks whose body fluctuates in size often. I'd recommend the Joque or Theo in that case. But for me, this harness does exactly what I need and looks super cute!

  • 4

    Rae | Jun 4, 2019

    Although it looks like underwear it provides the support of a full-on harness. It does fit very snug and the elastic doesn’t wear out after several washes, so it’s totally necessary to size up to start with a perfect fit. Bullet vibe pocket will forever be a plus.

  • 5

    Cam | Jan 4, 2019

    Instead of having to worry about adjusting a bunch of straps, this brief-style harness makes it so easy to just a pop a dildo in, put on like underwear, and I’m good to go. The brief style also feels really affirming of my gender expression and it’s just nice to have another option in terms of strap-on aesthetic. The hole is super stretchy and can accommodate a wide range of dildos, including double-ended’s!

  • 5

    Sydney | May 3, 2018

    I have been using leather strap harnesses for years and decided I wanted to try something new that took less adjusting. I love the way this fits my body. It has a bathing suit type material that sits really snug to my body and I don’t have to fuss around with it at all! I have it in black and it looks good with every dildo I have in my collection; the ring is stretchy so it works with nearly every size dildo as well! Sometimes I use it with my pack and play toy-- Shilo by the New York Toy Collective which works like a dream.

  • 3

    Julia Pham, Sex Advocate | Feb 2, 2018

    The Tomboi Harness is cuter and more comfortable than it is functional. It can hold a variety of sizes in terms of dildos, but doesn't have enough support to stay still enough to feel like I have total control over my cock. I wish the material was less stretchy to allow me more precision with movement.

  • 5

    Kasey Jones | Jun 6, 2017

    I've been a long time SpareParts fan. I've had my Joque for years and it's always been reliable and versatile. As a masculine of center person I liked the look of the Joque but when I saw they'd come out with an underwear style harness I got really excited. It has all the advantages of the Joque but the look of it really helps me feel like my cock is my own. Great for pack and play. It's my go-to harness now.