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Sex and Depression

Sex and Depression

"I don’t necessarily believe that any one thing can or will “cure” depression; it is almost always a combination of therapy, medication, self work, journaling, community support, and yes, sex toys, that drag me out of the depths of depression."

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​Neurodivergence in Sex & Kink

​Neurodivergence in Sex & Kink

There are a lot of societal misconceptions about neurodivergent people and how their brains work, so of course there are misconceptions about personal topics like sex and kink. Some might be thinking neurotypes don’t even play a role in sex. Let’s talk about it.

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Ask a Dominatrix pt. 3

Ask a Dominatrix pt. 3

May is Mental Health Awareness Month, and this installment of Ask a Dominatrix focuses on a relevant topic everyone struggles with mentally from time to time: imposter syndrome. In this blog, Robin Jennings AKA Mistress Mary shares her experience with imposter syndrome and how to successfully fight it.

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Impact Play 101: Spanking, Floggers, Paddles, and Canes

Impact Play 101: Spanking, Floggers, Paddles, and Canes

Are you ready to make a lasting impact on your partner(s) or playmate(s)? We’ve got you covered with all the expert tips on how to safely and confidently explore Impact Play! Jamie Joy, certified sex educator and kink enthusiast, is here to guide you through the basics of spanking, floggers, paddles, and canes.

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Healing Sexual Shame

Healing Sexual Shame

In this blog, sex coach and educator Jocelyn Silva, MSW, shares her experience with her self-pleasure journey, providing personal stories and tips on overcoming the shame we can sometimes feel about pleasure and masturbation so we can embrace our sexual essence and lead pleasure-filled lives.

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Temperature Play

Temperature Play

Brr, feeling cold this winter season? Looking for hot ideas to spice up your sex? This time of the year is ideal for cozying up and staying in, but that doesn’t mean you have to skip out on fun and adventure when it comes to your pleasure and intimacy. Certified sex educator Jamie Joy is here to guide you through the consensual highs and lows of Temperature Play.

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Ask a Dominatrix pt. 2

Ask a Dominatrix pt. 2

With Valentine’s Day still lingering in the air, this month we’ll focus our attention on how to get kinky with your partner and a few practical tips for creating kinky playlists and the #1 toy every Kinkster should have in their toolbox.

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